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Start having sex again post op?

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I guess 2 weeks wins! Same for me. :rolleyes:

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About a week and a half. But I kinda just layed there because you don't want to go crazy fresh out of surgery. I wish I had the sex overdrive some people talk about having but I am kinda turned-off all the time.

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A week and a half. And as you lose weight your sex drive goes up. Speaking from experience.

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A week and a half. And as you lose weight your sex drive goes up. Speaking from experience.

Im down 32lbs and speaking from experience, my sex drive has not gone up. Lol. If anything, I don't want to be touched at all. Lolol

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Lol 2wks too, and haven't looked back....lol I tell my husband that it's like if we're trying to brake a record or sumthin! Lol

keepin it real ;)

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I am almost 4weeks post op and my partner has been scared to touch me since surgery. She said she didn't want to hurt me she would only lightly kiss my stomach yet last night I assured her I was on and so for me 4 weeks. yet she keeps asking me am I ok....guess my answer is a little different due to im not having heterosexual sex but I figured I would answer :)

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I am almost 4weeks post op and my partner has been scared to touch me since surgery. She said she didn't want to hurt me she would only lightly kiss my stomach yet last night I assured her I was on and so for me 4 weeks. yet she keeps asking me am I ok....guess my answer is a little different due to im not having heterosexual sex but I figured I would answer :)

At least she is concerned for your well being. That's sweet. My husband just wants to ram it in and go to town. Lmao. No thanks.

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At least she is concerned for your well being. That's sweet. My husband just wants to ram it in and go to town. Lmao. No thanks.

LOL!! Hilarious! Then they wonder why we're turned off. I think it was about 4 weeks for me, but I had a period after surgery that lasted two weeks plus a ruptured ovarian cyst. Sex was the LAST thing on my mind. My husband threw in a lot of hints but waited it out patiently. ????

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Mine would have been like, "there's nothing wrong with your mouth." lmao

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Lol that is too funny hence why im gay...well partly lol. I just read my post to my girl she just laughed and said "don't worry I don't want to ram" lol

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