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I asked my doc at my last pre-op appointment he said whenever you feel up to it....I waited until two weeks I was kinda milking it a little but didn't want to try to soon and actually hurt something.....and I was good I did however make my husband use extreme caution and if he was on my stomach too much I vocalized this. Take your time and yes if you are feeling like that still give it a few more days how far post op are you?

Yah, I can be a bit much at times, so the thought I might hurt something did cross my mind, so I'm gonna give it a few weeks or a least until I could get around with nooooo pain. Thanks for sharing your story it's appreciated.

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You'll know if it doesn't feel right. I hope you are with a partner who understands what you are going through and is OK' date=' if you say, "Wait, something doesn't feel right", but lose the anxiety surrounding it. It really isn't a big deal. Just go nice and slow. You may actually enjoy it.

Ever hear of scissor position? Not a problem.[/quote']

Yah, I hear yah. Just being cautious I guess my doc told me today if I'm up tp it, I should go for it, just be easy about it thou lol

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Next time I will watch my words more carefully when they can be pervertedly interpreted for other meanings hahaha!!! I can't have anyone breaking the code of all of woman-kind!

No pretzels' date=' girl!! That's my point! lol

So, how bout this weather!!![/quote']

Lol, you guys are tooooo funny. The weather by me is gorgeous, was able to get into one of my Mz Prissy dresses and I must say I was very impressed with myself.... Guys the cat calls were hilarious but ultimately I'm happy with my progression so far :)

P.S no pretzels no pretzels lol unless it's a snack hahaha

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I hope sooner than 4 weeks not sure if me or my wife would survive the ordeal. :) 1 week maaaaaaybe!

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I hope sooner than 4 weeks not sure if me or my wife would survive the ordeal. <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> 1 week maaaaaaybe!

Lol, I'm single with a healthy drive for the opposite sex (^.^) and mannnnnnn lol b4 surgery I was busy with finals and work sooo now that things have slowed down I'm like , (In my Joey from friends voice) "Hi you doing?" lol

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My doc said said whenever I feel like it. Hubby was being all cautious and patient. However I wasn't and got tired of waiting on him so I took advantage of him in the middle of the night after two weeks. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do!

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My doc said said whenever I feel like it. Hubby was being all cautious and patient. However I wasn't and got tired of waiting on him so I took advantage of him in the middle of the night after two weeks. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do!

I heeeaaarrrrrr that lol..... You go girl (^.^)

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My doc said to wait at least a week or 2 and after that what feels alright. If it hurts don't do it, if it doesn't hurt do it! This applied to exercise as well. :)

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I was told whenever I was up to it, but not before I was on some type of birth control

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4 days here. Just do whatever feels right and no swinging from the tightropes.

4 days ?!?!? Really? That would be fabulous but I just had surgery Wednesday and can barely even move around with out pain. I can't imagine having sex already.

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About a week in my case. I had to hold my tummy still until about week 3 though, the shaking made me sore. Everything had to stay rather "vanilla" for about a month though.

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My hubs doesn't want me now...says we've been together too long...so I doubt he'll want me IF my hormones go wacky (in a good way).

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