August Sleevers?! Where Ya's At?

[Remodeling.Me 41]

On day 7 of my 10-day pre-op Liquid Protein diet. I'm doing rather well, but had 2 different birthday parties to deal w/ the past few days (one @ my house.... pizza & DQ cake, anyone?!!). I'm so ready to hole up in my house for the next 4 days (then the next month!) to be away from everyone else's food influences! ................so happy to be here w/ you guys... the updates from you who have been sleeved the past few days are really easing my mind, so THANK YOU!! Glad you're all doing so well.

[dizzylizzy83 8]

Exited about my surgery aug 8th @ 730 am but I still haven't packed ???? I have no idea what to take...any suggestions

[StormWarning 194]

I just want to wish US ALL who are having surgery tomorrow the best of luck. I know we are all going to do just fine. Someone better build a bigger loser's bench for this huge day of surgeries. See everyone on the other side!!

[ConnieSings 12]

@TaiDyed, JLOR, Mom_24, sweeteelme, lrainb:

Thanks so much for replying to my post!

I have been contemplating what you said all day and you've definitely made me feel better!

I know most people think of cutting and similar things when self mutilation is brought up but for me, altering God's design is considered self mutilation. I know it is a bit extreme to think this way because God is not some tyrant and He knows just how much I have been struggling through this and need help... I have also realized recently that my obesity is self mutilation too. God did not design my body to carry all this extra weight. He certainly doesn't want me to abuse myself through emotional eating either, and for my self worth to diminish as a result.

I see my sister eating out of control all the unhealthy food my mom cooks and I just feel so bad because I don't want her to walk down the same path I took and then ask herself -- How did I get here? I used to give her advice but now I am too ashamed to, so I just don't say anything anymore. Maybe my advice turned into some reverse psychology thing in the past, so not saying anything now will be better.

I can definitely relate to the shame and wonder that comes with being successful at everything in life and thinking why is this the only thing I struggle with? I have contacted a couple of therapists because I know once my appearance changes for the better and I develop the self confidence I have been missing for years, I will probably look for something else to deal with my emotional scars. I need emotional; not just physical healing. I hope God will grant me just that so I can be a true representation of who He is and not just mimic Him with my words or false religion.

Hi...

I just really wanted to encourage you... You have the sweetest and most tender heart toward God and others. You have gotten some great advice and encouragement here.. Just always remember to keep your heart and mind close to the heart of God and you will be fine.

Don't allow the guilt or shame or 2nd guesses to change the direction you have decided to go. My Daddy always said, "if you find yourself confused... then go back to the place in your mind, where you were not confused... because that's where you left God"...

So go back to the place you were when you were at perfect peace with your decision to have the surgery... IF YOU NEVER were at peace... then I strongly encourage you to spend some time praying and seeking your heart....

I personally see the surgery as self ("temple) preservation".... This is NOT an elective surgery, although we all sought out the surgery prior to someone telling us we had to have it done. MORBIDITY issues are not elective.

Apparently God laid it on your heart in the beginning to WANT to do something about the obesity that is killing you and cutting your life short of fulfilling the call and being the person He has called you to be...

Whatever you decide to go with... I pray the fullness of God for you, in your and all around you... I pray His peace gives you all the strength you need to know that you are walking on His path...

I hope this helps you in some way to know... you are okay... and you are okay with God....

God Bless You Sweetie...

[ConnieSings 12]

Saying a little prayer for all those having surgery tomorrow... Monday the 6th... Believing God for a safe and perfect surgery with no complications... no nausea... no vomiting... and no pain...

God Bless You All...

[findingme2012 22]

Sending up prayers for all of tomorrow's sleevers. ((hugs)) I am really thankful to have you all here to know and share our experiences with.

[futureskinnypants 193]

hey everyone! I'm having a GREAT time in myrtle beach!!! Despite feeling like a whale, I went on the beach today. Because mom wanted to! I got burnt to a crisp! Seriously!!! Then went shopping again . I have appt's tomorrow. I have to see the nutritionist, family doctor, and pay the rest of my balance. I guess the ball is really rolling!!! sorry I haven't kept up on the list, I'll try to get to it tonight

Up to bat tomorrow:

8.6.12-Aug62012-Dr Brengman Ric***nd VA

Arukind-Dr. Ross Seattle WA

Stormwarning-Dr Alvarez Mx

Pdog Dr. Halmi in Fairfax,Va.

Tabbymonroe

sleevealicious dr nain woodbridge va

bug-indiana

dreamnslim2012 Dr david Kim tx

thickiest2thick dr david suh

ReeTee Dr S. Killeen TX

aznurse4u Dr Monash Tucson AZ

kaykay20 Dr Kim

pebbles99-Dr. Amit Tivedi

prada-mexico

Good luck, Praying for you all. Please update us when your able.

[pdog 51]

Surgery tomorrow!! Nervous and exited. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers I go to hospital at 8:30 am and surgery around 10:30 I think. Pre op diet of 2 weeks I lost 10 pounds. Holy cow I am nervous now. I just want to wake up from surgery so I know all is good. I can deal with pain... I sure hope so. Thinking of all of you having surgery tomorrow. Hugs

i have the exact same times tomorrow for my surgery! Im nervous but excited and ready. I cant believe i will have a different life and relationship with food starting tomorrow....woohoo

[sweeteelme 37]

Saying a prayer for all tommorrow sleevers .God is in control

[shrinkydinkme 221]

saying a prayer now and then continuing for all of you who's big day is tomorrow. Excited for you to be on to all that awaits!

[Readytolose2012 88]

Futureskinnypants, if you want me to update the list for a week or so I can copy/update/post just let me know.

[dooter55 35]

I just want to wish US ALL who are having surgery tomorrow the best of luck. I know we are all going to do just fine. Someone better build a bigger loser's bench for this huge day of surgeries. See everyone on the other side!!

Best of luck!!! Excited for you guys and to hear about your progress!!

[lolo11 6]

I sent you a friend request for the Facebook group but I couldn't figure out how to message you, it didn't give me the option! My name is Lauren Williams. Thank you!

[Daddyfat2thin 30]

I just want to wish US ALL who are having surgery tomorrow the best of luck. I know we are all going to do just fine. Someone better build a bigger loser's bench for this huge day of surgeries. See everyone on the other side!!

Stormwarning,

You are going to the best surgeon ! You are going to have a great surgery and a fast and easy recovery! Have a sip for all the August sleevers!

My thoughts are with all the people getting sleeve surgery tomorrow! May it go very well !

[Nikki613 120]

Happy surgery day to everyone tomorrow! Happy healing to everyone already sleeved!!

I am going to say a big prayer for everyone tonight!

Update on me....we finally told the inlaws tonight!! Well i chickened out and sent the husband! What a relief that is done. Now I can focus on getting prepared for surgery!

*hugs*