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I've been on the Quest for a Lapband since last October when I answered an ad for a medical seminar on the subject. I brought my husband and we talked about it a lot before making the decision.

Like a lot of others here (I've been reading the posts for awhile), I've been moderately overweight my whole life. When my son died in a car accident in 2000, things spun wildly out of control. I've now turned some awful corner--not sure if it's the weight, my age, menopause or what, but I'm too fat for comfort or life enjoyment. And I'm afraid to try another diet because I can't afford to gain any more weight--my ultimate end-result each time.

So, after jumping through insurance restriction hoops, tests, support group meetings and consultations, here I am. The surgeon's office called and my surgery was approved the day after the file was submitted, wonder of wonders.

I'll be checking in daily and soaking up the wisdom of experience I find here. I already feel like I'm among friends.

So, like Bartle and James used to say, Thank you for your support!

MC

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Welcome. When is you date? I'm so so sorry about your son, how horrible for you and your family. That is a parents biggest nightmare I know. I give you a lot of credit for moving on. The band is wondeful! It has changed my life in so many ways.

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I think your son is looking down with a big smile on his face knowing that you've taken a positive step on the road to a healthier you. Welcome!

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Hi and welcome to LBT! Do you have a date for your surgery yet? Be sure and keep us posted how things are going and don't be afraid to ask questions, we love to answer them!

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And I'm afraid to try another diet because I can't afford to gain any more weight--my ultimate end-result each time.

MC

Good for you! I don't consider this a diet because you're right "diets" never work in the long run. I consider this a lifestyle change and it's pretty rewarding. Congratulations and welcome!

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