Dating: People now interested after your weight loss that knew you before

KariK · September 16, 2006

Beevis and Butthead moment here: teeheehheee 'he'd punch him in the face' hehehe that just cracks me up for some reason.

Aside from that part though, that guy sounds like a real tool. YUCK.

Nykee · September 17, 2006

I hope I dont get too pissy about it cuz it seems perfectly natural to me to be more attracted..

Surby · September 17, 2006

I think there's a facet of this that has been overlooked! I don't think the guys are all shallow and just attracted because of size; I think that as we lose weight we become so much more confident.......we carry ourselves differently and tend to make eye contact and maybe even smile more!! Perhaps THIS is what attracts the attention from some guys!! Thank goodness I don't have to worry about.....I'm lucky to have a hubby who loves me no matter what (I think!)!! Hang in there!!

ralheit · September 17, 2006

I didn't have to go through this, but I would think that I would feel flattered, but I would never date one of them. If I wasn't good enough for them before, then they can eat dirt now. My husband accepted me for the person I was, not for what I looked like. Now he is very supportive of my decision, but doesn't think it was necessary as far as what I looked like. He does understand however, that my health and my grandchildren were and are my primary decision maker. Oh, and I forgot to mention, my husband knew me for many years and we dated when I was younger and smaller. He didn't care how much I changed over the years. He loved me for me. That's what you want.