Husband Help

[Yoda 0]

That's good news Kat!!!

[paula 4]

but I know my man and hes to selfish for that. He rarely thinks of me (christmas and birthdays are a nightmare!)

I just scared BeBe from my sudden outburst of laughing!!

That was too funny!

When I was first banded, Mike would buy (every now and then) something bad. When I would question him WHY he brought it into the house, he'd say: "You're the one starving yourself - Not ME!"

No Cookies, chips, colas, junk stuff... and men think we're trying to starve 'em!

[K@t 38]

Paula, our husbands must be long lost twins or something.......hugo told me the other day he was "tired of starving in this house". I told him to go back to his momma's house then.:heh:

[A1ikou 0]

Hey there,

take your vacation to enjoy yourself and each other for a while away from home and work and his family...

Then when you come back you need to work on yourself and the best choices you can do for you and hopefully hubby will fall in with you and want the same things you want...

"If" he doesn't then finally there isn't so much you can do. I know when those I loved tried to 'help' me out and I didn't want to do what they said, I went into 'bite your nose to spite your face' mode and ate even more. Your hubby is an adult and he has to decided to make good choices for himself...no chips in the house is a good start and he should respect that for you...but if he goes and buys them and eats them elsewhere then not much you can do.

So start by enjoying some time out together and then see if that can transfer into a mutual support for health and diet when you get home.

Have a great vacation!

[K@t 38]

ahhh vacation....*drool* :biggrin1:

[Yoda 0]

ahhh vacation....*drool* :biggrin1:

Yeeesh...can't take her anywhere *rolls eyes*....*hands Kat a drool bib*

[K@t 38]

thanks yoda, sorry bout that....