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Thank fully the only the person that can sabotage me is me...

However my gripe is the number 98.7 (kgs)...it is has been on my scale for the last 2 weeks...i really want to see another number, I am so bored of 98.7.

I so know the feeling...I was like that and I started reading and increased my caloric intake by 100 calories and boom broke the barrier for me!

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My gripe is a day late but I only lost about 4lbs this last month. Seriously not happy about that. Also, my thighs keep moving even after I stop. Seriously, it's a cottage cheese fest.

As for the hubby, I sit and watch him eat and I feel like smacking the food out of his hands before he can eat it. I never noticed how fast he eats and how he doesn't seem to chew so much as just swallow his food whole. It's irritating me. So I guess this is my problem because he has always done it but now I am so aware of it!

I am really afraid for him and he doesn't get it! He is a former marine and body builder. His 6 pack has long since been replaced by a keg. He has always had high blood pressure even when he was in his best shape. I am terrified that if he keeps going down this road I will be raising two boys by myself. Trying to get him to understand that and make the changes is another story. I know he knows how to lose weight because I have seen him do it....

However, he has been VERY supportive of me and my journey and that's why I love him.

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I have to say that I am very blessed to have such a supportive husband. He only praises me instead of bringing me down. He is also military. He is in the army and has a beautiful body and can eat anything he wants. My only beef with him is that he eats so damn loudly and I can't stand to hear him eating stuff I can't. Lolol some days I just want to take his food away. Other than that, he is the best husband in the world.

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