Are There Any Single Sleevers Out There..

[bigcountryab 278]

Wish there was a magic pill or whatever to make this whole date crap not so very craptastic. But at least we can chat with eachother.

I'm single too and it kind of sucks and kind of doesn't. It sucks when you're lonely and you just want "your person"' date=' the one that is yours and you share the highs and lows of life with. It doesn't suck when you have to hear all the horror stories from others about the sh*tty side of dating.

However, better a sh*tty day in paradise than working right? Lol.

And it's all well and good that I'm under 200 now, down 117 since surgery (11/20/12) but try still being almost 6 feet tall. I will NEVER be petite and guys want small, which I cannot change my height so that leaves me S.O.L.

And BTW acting nurse...you should have no problem whatsoever. Very handsome indeed.[/quote']

Not all guys want really small women lol

[tallysfunny 363]

Yeah well that's been my experience. Lol. I'm always too tall. Or the really short guys chase me. I'm not a tree to climb. Lol.

[bigcountryab 278]

Yeah well that's been my experience. Lol. I'm always too tall. Or the really short guys chase me. I'm not a tree to climb. Lol.

Lol I'm six feet even and I like tall women but not over 6'2 lol

[tallysfunny 363]

Lol I'm six feet even and I like tall women but not over 6'2 lol

Do heels count? Lol. And let me clarify another item...where are you located? I guarantee its not florida!! Haha. It's just hard for women.

[bigcountryab 278]

Do heels count? Lol. And let me clarify another item...where are you located? I guarantee its not florida!! Haha. It's just hard for women.

I live in houston yea I totally understand I've struggled with dating since getting to goal as well

[Oak Park Lorena 162]

Single in Chicago. I actually ended a seven-year relationship a few months before my surgery. It would have been convenient to have someone help me schlep stuff and what not, but he was such a negative person in my life that frankly I'd rather face the whole process alone! I see my post-sleeve time as a chance to recover from the surgery and the relationship--not in any big hurry to date again!

[bigcountryab 278]

Single in Chicago. I actually ended a seven-year relationship a few months before my surgery. It would have been convenient to have someone help me schlep stuff and what not' date=' but he was such a negative person in my life that frankly I'd rather face the whole process alone! I see my post-sleeve time as a chance to recover from the surgery and the relationship--not in any big hurry to date again![/quote']

Hey there welcome to the club

[italian-girl 152]

Ugh dating.... Lol I'm only two weeks out from the surgery... But dating hasn't ever been easy or hard... Easy to get dates, problem is (and I don't mean all men are like this) men seem to like dating more than one person at a time. I just refuse to deal with it and I walk.... I've never been one to deal with lying or cheating because I'm better than that. I'd rather be alone.

We shall see how this stuff goes after the losing process.... Who knows.

[bigcountryab 278]

Ugh dating.... Lol I'm only two weeks out from the surgery... But dating hasn't ever been easy or hard... Easy to get dates' date=' problem is (and I don't mean all men are like this) men seem to like dating more than one person at a time. I just refuse to deal with it and I walk.... I've never been one to deal with lying or cheating because I'm better than that. I'd rather be alone.

We shall see how this stuff goes after the losing process.... Who knows.[/quote']

Hello welcome and yes some guys (I'm awesome) give us a bad name lol good luck with your weight loss

[italian-girl 152]

Hello welcome and yes some guys (I'm awesome) give us a bad name lol good luck with your weight loss

Thanks.

[tallysfunny 363]

I live in houston yea I totally understand I've struggled with dating since getting to goal as well

I'm not at goal yet. I still have about 24 pounds to get to my first goal. I want to get to 174 as my weight to maintain while I wait to get approved for plastics.

[bigcountryab 278]

I'm not at goal yet. I still have about 24 pounds to get to my first goal. I want to get to 174 as my weight to maintain while I wait to get approved for plastics.

What plastics do you want?

[tallysfunny 363]

What plastics do you want?

The full overhaul. Arms, breasts, tummy and thighs. Insurance will cover most as part of reconstructive surgery. I don't want anything super crazy that will interfere with my workouts though. Once I maintain at 174-ish, I know I will go down into the 160's after plastics. We shall see.

[BBWOMAN 9]

The full overhaul. Arms' date=' breasts, tummy and thighs. Insurance will cover most as part of reconstructive surgery. I don't want anything super crazy that will interfere with my workouts though. Once I maintain at 174-ish, I know I will go down into the 160's after plastics. We shall see.[/quote']

My nut said that plastics was not Covered under my blue cross blue shield insurance.

[BBWOMAN 9]

Ugh dating.... Lol I'm only two weeks out from the surgery... But dating hasn't ever been easy or hard... Easy to get dates' date=' problem is (and I don't mean all men are like this) men seem to like dating more than one person at a time. I just refuse to deal with it and I walk.... I've never been one to deal with lying or cheating because I'm better than that. I'd rather be alone.

We shall see how this stuff goes after the losing process.... Who knows.[/quote']

Welcome, I agree most man want to date more than one woman. And I wouldn't stand for that either. And you are not alone you have your sleeve family to support you:) Good Luck!