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I'm a single mother of a teenage boy. I have no idea how to meet men! The only ones that hit on me are married or way to old.

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Hi. Newly sleeved (5/28/13). Not newly single. LOL. Been single for a very long time. Have 3 boys, 2 are teenagers, that have been my focus for..always. =) In CT. Have no idea how to react to possible social situations. I'm extremely shy.

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I am about 10 months out and its weird I had more confidence before weight loss than I have now. my skin use to look so good even being fat I filled out my body well , now I feel flabby and see hanging skin in areas it use to not hang what the heck .... also I find that its a lot harder to date when you really cant eat much and everyone wants to take you to dinner and drinks, I found a way to get around the drink part by saying I am not a drinker but the dinner part is becoming hard, I don't want to tell people I have just met that I use to be fat and have lost over 100 lbs... that is just not first date material when and if it becomes necessary I will tell them , I try to order something small but wth only being able to eat a small portion it is hard... i try to say lets do something else but men love to eat.... lol

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I am about 10 months out and its weird I had more confidence before weight loss than I have now. my skin use to look so good even being fat I filled out my body well ' date=' now I feel flabby and see hanging skin in areas it use to not hang what the heck .... also I find that its a lot harder to date when you really cant eat much and everyone wants to take you to dinner and drinks, I found a way to get around the drink part by saying I am not a drinker but the dinner part is becoming hard, I don't want to tell people I have just met that I use to be fat and have lost over 100 lbs... that is just not first date material when and if it becomes necessary I will tell them , I try to order something small but wth only being able to eat a small portion it is hard... i try to say lets do something else but men love to eat.... lol[/quote']

I'm a single sleever and would love to find a single lady to talk to... If you are out there hit me up

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Hello all! I'm planning to be sleeved in August around my 30th bday...happy bday to me!!! Anyway, I've been single over a year now and would love to meet my Mr. Right. I'm in Chattanooga, TN but I love to travel and meet new people.

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Any sleevers close to Springfield mo?

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Single in Northern part of L.A. County. Anyone in Calif.?

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Hey single sleevers, checking in with y'all. Today is my one year Surgiversary. Yippee. Best decision ever!

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Hey wolf girl where you from?

Louisiana

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And I'm very pumped, I leave Monday on a cruise with other women I met on these boards to Celebrate our one year sleeve anniversaries. I'll be rocking my new swim suits

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And I'm very pumped' date=' I leave Monday on a cruise with other women I met on these boards to Celebrate our one year sleeve anniversaries. I'll be rocking my new swim suits[/quote']

Well I hope you post pics ;) I'm nearly 8 months out and ready for my magic mike 2 audition... What part of Louisiana? I'm from Orange Tx right on the border of TX and LA

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Well I hope you post pics ;) I'm nearly 8 months out and ready for my magic mike 2 audition... What part of Louisiana? I'm from Orange Tx right on the border of TX and LA

Really? I live in Sulphur, LA. We are neighbors. Lol

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And I'm very pumped' date=' I leave Monday on a cruise with other women I met on these boards to Celebrate our one year sleeve anniversaries. I'll be rocking my new swim suits[/quote']

That is awesome! What a great way to celebrate. Congrats!

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That is awesome! What a great way to Celebrate. Congrats!

Thank you!

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