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I was sleeved on 9/13/2011.

I'm down a total of 85.5 lbs, 66.5 post op. I have lost 1lb in a month. I am struggling with time between work, grad school, volunteer teaching and stress eating. I feel like a failure.

I need to jump start my 'good eating' habits again and get back on track. My 6 month anniversary is in 15 days. I wanted to break 100lbs. I don't think I will make it.

Has anyone else struggled at this point? Any advice?

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Personally sounds like you are doing awesome but I understand not meeting your personal expectations...

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I hope I can lose 66# in 5 months!

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Give yourself a break, forgive yourself, and then get back on track. Had you been tracking your food while you were losing consistently? If not, I suggest myfitnesspal.com or some similar program. It helps me really see what I consume all day. Lately I've been snacking in the afternoon something awful. If you find yourself weak at a specific time of day, try to find something else to do during that time. We can and will do this! Keep your head up and keep pushing forward :)

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I;m going to join you tomorrow! The last couple of days have been absolutely horrible for me. Got that head hunger thing going. We can do, let's get it done! ;)

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I hope I can lose 66# in 5 months!

66lbs is a decent amount but when I have 171.5 total to lose, it's a drop in the bucket.

I started out at 311.5 lbs. I'm 5'11" and my dr has set an unrealistic goal of 140lbs for me. At 200lbs, I'm a size 11. My 19 year old daughter is 145lbs in a size 5. I don't need to be that thin. I think his goal has put me in a bad place.

Thanks for the words of advice. I am fighting hormones this week and everything is so dramatic. I've been on my period more than I've been off since surgery. Blah!

Good luck everyone.

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