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hello fellow sleevers,

i am sorry if i said something that was unpopular.

I just said what i said, never meaning to upset anyone. I love this board and i will continue - but i have to leave the room now cuz i'm so sad and hurt.

good-bye for now

kathy

DOS 12/15/11

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Huh? Uhhhhh...what'dja say? (I mean...to which post are you referring?)

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I missed it, but sorry you are feeling hurt. Hugs.

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It has happened to me before as it seems like you are being ganged up on just because you have an opinion.....do not let it get you down and keep on posting. Your opinion is just as important as others on this board. Just because some think their opinions or words are superior do not let it scare you away......please stay.

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Not sure what was said, but it doesn't matter. Hope you are doing well. Praying for you.

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I just got jumped on by Captain something or other because I expressed my opinion about having my surgery at a clinic vs at a hospital.....that was my opinion and if you do not like it then tuff.....Just like likesulema I feel the same way. I am staying so get over yourself......Captain

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The Captain was after me in a thread i posted, too.

I don't know what you're referring to, Kathy, but really, just brush it off. This place is supportive 95% of the time... that's a pretty good ratio. :)

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I agree Tenshi.......stay with me Kathy as your surgery date was close to mine and I need your support also.

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I don't know what's going on either, but I hope you stay. Your opinion is as valid as the next persons. With so many different people, we will of course have a difference of opinion sometimes, but I feel we should all be respectful. Don't let anyone bully you off this board, you have a right to be here for the support.

:)

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hello fellow sleevers,

i am sorry if i said something that was unpopular.

I just said what i said, never meaning to upset anyone. I love this board and i will continue - but i have to leave the room now cuz i'm so sad and hurt.

good-bye for now

kathy

DOS 12/15/11

I'm late to the conversation, but don't go anywhere. You are allowed to have opinions whether the rest of us agree with them or not.

Please don't let anyone ruin the board for you. :)

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thanx to all above - i'll get over it and i'm fine now - i appreciate you kindness

kathy

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Feelings will get hurt on here on VST sadly-this is not the first time I have seen this. People strongly believe what they believe in and voice this inappropriately.

You need to stay strong and do not be bullied. Yes, you do have a right to voice an opinion as long as you are not attacking someone personally or being offensive which I highly doubt you did.

Now, there is a time to be rude. I have taken someone on for one of their posts where they stated absolute faslehoods and lies. Did I attack? Probably. I was angry because so many trust what they read here. To all newbies, remember to be vigilant and do not trust everything. We have a fine line to walk.

Glad you decided to stay and keep smiling in your posts. You staying is a WIN.

Congrats on being sleeved!

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