Cheating - what if...

Boo Boo Kitty · August 18, 2007

how many people are ever going to go on this post and admit they cheated? i doubt anyone. if you did cheat, i want to know why.

Lol...for the record I did just post. BUT what does it matter our reasons? Everyone is different, and we will all say different things.

You can say that you will never cheat, but you never truly know until you get into the situation. I understand morals and committment, but sometimes other things are factors.

Boo Boo Kitty · August 18, 2007

AND before you all start bombing me, please understand you do not know me or my situation. I am in a relationship of abuse and pain, I did not cheat to get laid or have sex. Please do not attack me.

green · August 18, 2007

AND before you all start bombing me, please understand you do not know me or my situation. I am in a relationship of abuse and pain, I did not cheat to get laid or have sex. Please do not attack me.

It would never occur to me to diss you for cheating on your mate. People are unfaithful for a wide variety of reasons. Human behaviour is complicated.

Boo Boo Kitty · August 18, 2007

It would never occur to me to diss you for cheating on your mate. People are unfaithful for a wide variety of reasons. Human behaviour is complicated.

Oh green, I know I love you! I just got a bit defensive as a preamble I guess. You of all people are the least judging and most honest people in my opinion. You always tell it like it is, and never are dirty!

TracyK · September 2, 2007

OK, I cheated.....here is the reason why since you asked....

My then husband was a complete bastard. He told me (in his own way)that nobody would ever want me or find me attractive. He used me for money, was a drug head, and I found someone that treated me like gold, listened to me when I cried and things went from there. The "friend" knew I was hurting and he gave me new perspective & strength to move on from the horrible "relationship" I was in. I have zero regrets....let me say that again, ZERO REGRETS....if in the same situation would I do it again? No.... and here is why, I learned so much from the EX and my affair, that I have the strength and wisdom now to know when it is time to bail out and take care of me. If I do not take care of me then nobody else it going to do it for me.

And that crap about once a cheater always a cheater...that is the biggest amount of bullshit I have ever heard.

Like BooBoo Kitty said, you do not know what you would do until you walk in their shoes....

I am very happily married now to a wonderful man that is my prince...I aim to keep it that way. I would never hurt him by cheating on him...the EX?, well he deserved it and so did I...I am a better woman & wife for it.

Thats my story....