jasleeve 440 Posted December 16, 2011 do whatever you feel is right for you! screw him! we all stand behind you! You all are great!! I needed some humor after that text! I may file, but it's going to be very different from what we had talked about before!! And I will file when I am ready!! Lissa Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Swimmer 199 Posted December 16, 2011 So sorry wishing you strength and good wishes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shoppingbeemom 31 Posted December 17, 2011 I'm sorry you are going through the heart break of divorce and what could have been. I am very happy to hear you are a strong enough woman, who loves herself enough, to get out of an abusive situation. Best wishes Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
grannyk 58 Posted December 17, 2011 When I got divorced 27 years ago (wow, that's a long time), it was my ex's idea that we needed to "separate". But I filed because I wanted to be on the offensive side. And... I was afraid he might change his mind and not go through with it. YIKES!! I couldn't let that happen. I know it is tough for most people to go through divorce. Keep your chin up, take care of yourself and press on toward your goals. Come to the forum when you need a boost. God bless...Kathe Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lissa 2,631 Posted December 17, 2011 Thanks, again, for all your support! I'm wrapping my head around it and I just got some more news. Apparently, he decided to quit counseling. I just wonder if he quit his job as well? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites