miserable and need support

lisah25 · July 25, 2006

P.S How the heck do you guys do the strip with how many days to go and then the one with your starting weight, pre op weight etc,,how do you get that graph thingy?? Inquring minds want to know!

Check out this thread, it helped me!

http://lapbandtalk.com/showthread.php?t=16218&highlight=ticker

slimwithin · July 25, 2006

kim,I don't know where you live if it was stated i missed it. I live in Southwest Va. If you are close i would be glad to visit with you. Or you can e-mail me and i will give you my #. As for the LB. You can do it. I was baneded 6-13-06. As for the guy, Well if he does not love you now, would you want him to love you later???? I'll be there for you. slimwithin.

fatmikeslim · July 25, 2006

kimmason , i know how hard it is to feel so alone , i have lots of friends and a big family , but very few peoplr actually know how it is to feel so alone , i can really sympathise with you . I actually am very interested with this particular lady and we spend a lot of time together , but the second i leave her house i feel like a drop in the ocean .she has a boyfriend and i dont think she has any plans to break any thing off with him and i dont want to press the issue , but i know as thing chang e in my life i will become more outward and find someone if she doesnt realize what she has in front of her .Sorry about venting i dont get to very often .....I do feel like a pebble in a hill alot of the time , so that is where i am getting a lot of my strength

kimmason · July 26, 2006

Hi fatmikeslim. wow thankyou soo much for opening up and I can empathize with your unrequited love. It is soo painful.

I hope that as you move on,lose weight and gain more confidence that she sees that in you and if she doesn't , then someone else wil see that spark. You can bet on it!

kimmason · July 26, 2006

Hi slimwithin

I am not near you unfortunetly I am in toronto canada, actually newmarlet area here. i would have loved it if we lived closer and could meet. I REALLY need the support and then can see how someone else is getting through this. I am the night before my preop diet and I am stuffing it all in and fought all day with Peter,, cried three times and thta is not the confident me..infact I don't feel confident at all.

Thank sfor caring.