Telling Family About Gastric Sleeve, Feeling Uneasy!

[DisappearingDivis 36]

When I decided on the sleeve I started with the hubby. His response was "If that's what you want, do it". After him and I were on the same page I began to tell the siblings, my mom and my best friend. I was completely honest and told them I would listen to their concerns and answer all the questions I could. But it was MY decision in the end an I wasn't searching for approval! My family and I are very opinionated so I was expecting a fight. But to my surprise they have been 100% on board! They all keep checking on me making sure I do all my pre-op requirements and have already started planing for life after the sleeve. I have to say it's nice to have their support but even if I didn't have it my decision would still be the same regardless. It's true that all surgeries carry risk but the burden my family would have if I become diabetic and lost a limb or had a severe heart attack (which is a very real possibility) would be greater!

[longer-life 139]

Hey there, I was sleeved a week ago so I have had some experience with a variety of reactions.

In the end, this decision was for me. Their opinions and feelings about it are just that, theirs.

They are your family and they love you and when you need a shoulder to cry on or an ear to complain to, they will provide. Just focus on your new life. You will be so happy once all is said and done and you know what? Happiness is contagious!!

Take care!!

I could have written your post MsKelly. This is why I tell people that love me and I don't get upset by their different responses. They are being honest and I appreciate that. In the end, they will most likely be there to support you whether "they get it" or not. Do what feels right to you Fireflyx.