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Any therapist worth his salt would see that you were distressed. Your emotions shouldn't hinder his decision, they are just seeing if you will have the fortitude to succeed post sleeve. Theres something about being in a psych office that makes a LOT of people cry and remember you can always go to a different therapist, your Doc wants you to have this surgery, he gets paid good and you get healthy. He's not gonna cancel you because of that, this is for insurance purposes.

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they dont want you to fail. im sure the results are fine. they are really looking for people that wouldnt be compliant with a diet and who have an untreated mental illness. im sure it will be fine!

keep us posted!

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I wouldn't worry to much about it.

The therapist screening is to find individuals who have food addictions or other indicators or conditions that may require treatment in parallel with the surgery. I have heard of very few individuals who were denied surgery due to the shrink's report.

The goal is your successful weight loss not to wash you out.

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Bigserv can you believe he didn't ask any of your questions? Not one!!!!

Thanks everyone for your support & ideas on how to proceed! I won't let this stop me regardless.

SkCunningham, so sorry about your sister in law. I also love my EX sister in law like a sister. That must have been terrible for you. :(

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I am so glad to hear that! One less thing to worry about and you are on your way! biggrin.gif

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I passed! Phew! LOL

Thanks to all of you, I stopped worrying. You were right. Thanks!!!!

:cheer2:

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