FatGirlSlim 115 Posted April 16, 2012 Wear pants without them being destroyed from thigh rub!! Not have to worry about whether I am going to fit on a ride when I take the kids to the amusement park! Go to a regular store and buy regular clothes and not have to shop at the moo-moo store And just live!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ready! 22 Posted May 22, 2012 I love this! Just today I noticed my thong is in the right place and not being hide by my fat rolls.LOL! I even took a picture of it!<img src='http://cdn.verticalsleevetalk.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' /> I hear ya! I can't wait until my hubby can actually carry me! Like in the movies... Ha! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amytequilahouse 184 Posted May 22, 2012 I'm tired of hearing awe but you have such a pretty face.., o_0 I hate that. I would like to buy clothes anywhere. I want to fly ( never been on a plane). I want to go to a club (I'm 30 never been clubbing and I'm single no kids). I want to go to an amusement park and get on all the rides!! last and most important, I want to have kids and be able to enjoy our lives and live a healthy long life 2 peacequeen and PEvette reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mome2mad 19 Posted May 22, 2012 I can't wait to slow dance with my husband again! We are both on the heavy side and when we dance our bellys get in the way so we turn to the side lol!! I also want my 6 year old son and 13 year old daughter to be able to put their arms all the way around me when they hug me!! I cant wait to shop in VS for the first time EVER!! I'm a Christian singer with two praise bands! I am confident in the gift that God has given me but i stand there worrying about what I look like! I can't wait to be able to lead people into worship without having my weight in my mind! 2 PEvette and shangefan reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
denalisa 12 Posted May 22, 2012 To... run, go hiking, not have anxiety about airplane seats, stop avoiding eye contact with people who knew me in my skinny days, ride a roller coaster, jump on the trampoline with my son, have ENERGY, and go to a gym without feeling like I don't belong. And yes - I too want to paint my toenails without feeling like its a major event to reach my feet. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
denalisa 12 Posted May 22, 2012 And I forgot to say - go to the doctor without them telling me I'm overweight, stop taking my blood pressure medication, and not have my PCOS hormones balance out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4ALongerLife 329 Posted May 22, 2012 One thing I wanted was for my son to hug me and be able to touch his hands together (with me in the middle). We were in the grocery store a couple of weeks ago and he did it and even said "look mama." I forgot that was one thing I said before surgery that I wanted, so you reminded me. Thank you (and you brought tears to my eyes for two reasons: 1. reminding me of this small goal and 2. for all of the other things that everyone shared... I totally related to so many, but how beautiful it is to hear what others hearts desire - I wish you all success in this journey!). 4 LoriRay, Amytequilahouse, Musharooni and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RMS 64 Posted May 22, 2012 So many of these are true for me. Riding the rides at amusement parks. Playing ball with my 3 sons. Having my husband carry me. Weighing less than my husband. I can't wait. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FatGirlSlim 115 Posted May 22, 2012 I cant wait to really not feel fat when people say that "you're not that big". To be able to shop in stores that have something that I would really want to wear and not be forced to wear because my options are slim to none. To be able to sit in a chair or rollercoaster sit and not worry about it digging into my thighs....or worry about if the seatbelt is going to make it all the way across me... And just recently (since I just got off a flight), to not worry about someone sitting on a sit beside me on a flight and have them sitting on my hips.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Musharooni 62 Posted May 22, 2012 I have many of the same wishes. To ride amusement park rides with my kids To do a walking tour somewhere that lasts all day and be able to do it To take a plane ride without having to be a second seat for the rest of my a** To go to the movie theater, a playhouse, or auditorium without worrying if I will fit in the seat To attend Open House at my kids school without having to stand in the back because I can't fit in the desk. To shop anywhere I want--not just "Specialty Size" Stores 1 4ALongerLife reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shangefan 193 Posted May 22, 2012 Wow, I can't wait to: * Get off BP meds! * Stop worrying that I will end up with diabetes * Clothes -- 'nuff said. * Not be the fattest person in the room. * Not always assume that people are thinking about how fat I am * Have more energy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkinnyRicki 34 Posted May 22, 2012 Wear pants without them being destroyed from thigh rub!! Go to a regular store and buy regular clothes and not have to shop at the moo-moo store And just live!!!!! Amen to that!! I can't wait to not be the fat girl! I have never been able to buy anything in Victoria's secret except perfume and lotion do I look forward to that! Finding the man of my dreams and not being judged and made fun of along the way Getting married and having babies Getting rid of my anxiety !! Too many things to name ! I am ready to not be trapped in this body anymore!! 1 Amytequilahouse reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
felinakay 0 Posted May 22, 2012 I think mine would be taking pictures with my kids without having to hide behind them being able to ride the rides at disney world with my children being able to eat in public without people staring being able to feel like I matter Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mome2mad 19 Posted May 22, 2012 I think mine would be taking pictures with my kids without having to hide behind them being able to ride the rides at disney world with my children being able to eat in public without people staring being able to feel like I matter Felinakay You do matter Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
felinakay 0 Posted May 22, 2012 mome2mad, Thank you :-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites