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my question for those of you who have been sleeved. how long before you were able to have sex after your surgery? now most guys i'm sure will say the next day, but this ones for the ladies. I have my surgery day tomarrow, and my husband and i have a healthy sex life and just are wondering how long before the pain was gone enough before you wanted to make woopie again ;)

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As soon as you feel ready and most people say it's only about a week.

There are positions that you don't have to put pressure on the stomach at all.

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thank you! he will be happy to hear that! he was worried that i was gonna be down for the count for a month! :lol:

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oh you ask the best questions. I so wanted to know that to..:rolleyes:

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My husband N I were back at it 1week out. But there are alot of things you can do for him, vice versa!

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lol, totally great response. yes after 17 years of marrage we have figured out the other stuff we can do B) !!!

i cant stop laughing....love it!!!!!

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Wow Sassygirl. Ive been married 17 yrs too!! Yep by this time hopefully we have a little more experience. Always more to learn tho 

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lol! yeah we are high school sweethearts :rolleyes:

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yep, but it worked well for us. i have 3 as well. 2 girls and a boy....oldest is 16, middle is 12, and youngest is 8.

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4 weeks. Wow what a difference, I could actually breath.LOL

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hehe, you are almost exactly the same as me. my daughter is 16, son is 12 and littlest daughter is 8. except for the littlest two arent the opposite. if you lived close we could hook um up...lol

what year did you graduate? im 94, my husband was 92. im almost 35 (on the 9th of september) my husband is 38.

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