Introducing Myself

[Ber 0]

I have been overweight my entire life minus the one year I met my husband, at 16, and that year I was blessed to weigh only 125lb. It didn't last long, maybe 8 or 9 months, and I quickly gained the weight back and then some. I got comfortable as time went on and went back into my old eating habits. Fast forward to now. I am 30 years old and married, for 12 years, to a wonderful man. We don't have any children but we do have 2 Chihuahua's - Banjo & Angel and 1 Budgie - Tweet.

About my health: I am 5'1 and 265lb, 287lb being the most I've ever weighed. I've been diagnosed as morbid obese. That word is so ugly. I have had PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) since I can remember starting my first menses and it has brought about a lot of physical, mental, and emotional problems for me, including infertility and hirsutism. If anyone can relate to that alone they will understand what it's like to feel less feminine. I am Insulin Resistant. My hair is brittle and skin is dry. I have high Blood Pressure, a fatty Liver, Hypothyroidism, high Triglycerides and fat in my blood, and high Prolactin (a Pituitary gland hormone).

I recently had a doctor appointment with my PCP and she has mentioned, for the 2nd time, WLS. She said with all these health problems progressing as fast as they are and with my weight as high as it is and me being only 30y.o. that I am on the verge of a heart attack or stroke and that this surgery could possibly reverse all of this.

I am tired of being overweight. I am scared. I never have had surgery before to help me lose weight. I know WLS won't magically make me healthy, happy, and thin. I realize this is a life long journey that requires of me to do my part in order for this to be successful. I am ready to be the woman I know I am.

I set out for Lap-Band but after careful consideration and forum browsing, here and at obesityhelp,I've made my decision and decided on the VSG. I feel this is the best surgery for me for many reasons. I'm thinking ahead 10 years and longer. I just don't see the band holding up that long. Plus, the LB may be the safest during surgery, but, I heard it has the most complications in the long run. Another VSG girl said her surgeon thinks the LB will lose its popularity in a few years and VSG will be everyones first choice. I'm in this for life and just don't see myself committed to multiple surgeries/fills/unfills etc. with the LB. Currently, I am in the process of getting ahold of a surgeon for a VSG seminar.

Ber

PS: I want to say thank you, in advance, for your posts, advice, knowledge, wisdom, support, laughs, smiles... all that stuff lol.... "Thank You"

[rubyspring 1]

Congrats on making this life changing decision. You are among friends here:) Good luck on your journney.

[Texasmom65 23]

Congrats and welcome.

[shelleyrox 1]

I have been overweight my entire life minus the one year I met my husband, at 16, and that year I was blessed to weigh only 125lb. It didn't last long, maybe 8 or 9 months, and I quickly gained the weight back and then some. I got comfortable as time went on and went back into my old eating habits. Fast forward to now. I am 30 years old and married, for 12 years, to a wonderful man. We don't have any children but we do have 2 Chihuahua's - Banjo & Angel and 1 Budgie - Tweet.

About my health: I am 5'1 and 265lb, 287lb being the most I've ever weighed. I've been diagnosed as morbid obese. That word is so ugly. I have had PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) since I can remember starting my first menses and it has brought about a lot of physical, mental, and emotional problems for me, including infertility and hirsutism. If anyone can relate to that alone they will understand what it's like to feel less feminine. I am Insulin Resistant. My hair is brittle and skin is dry. I have high Blood Pressure, a fatty Liver, Hypothyroidism, high Triglycerides and fat in my blood, and high Prolactin (a Pituitary gland hormone).

I recently had a doctor appointment with my PCP and she has mentioned, for the 2nd time, WLS. She said with all these health problems progressing as fast as they are and with my weight as high as it is and me being only 30y.o. that I am on the verge of a heart attack or stroke and that this surgery could possibly reverse all of this.

I am tired of being overweight. I am scared. I never have had surgery before to help me lose weight. I know WLS won't magically make me healthy, happy, and thin. I realize this is a life long journey that requires of me to do my part in order for this to be successful. I am ready to be the woman I know I am.

I set out for Lap-Band but after careful consideration and forum browsing, here and at obesityhelp,I've made my decision and decided on the VSG. I feel this is the best surgery for me for many reasons. I'm thinking ahead 10 years and longer. I just don't see the band holding up that long. Plus, the LB may be the safest during surgery, but, I heard it has the most complications in the long run. Another VSG girl said her surgeon thinks the LB will lose its popularity in a few years and VSG will be everyones first choice. I'm in this for life and just don't see myself committed to multiple surgeries/fills/unfills etc. with the LB. Currently, I am in the process of getting ahold of a surgeon for a VSG seminar.

Ber

PS: I want to say thank you, in advance, for your posts, advice, knowledge, wisdom, support, laughs, smiles... all that stuff lol.... "Thank You"

Ber,

You will be happy you are doing this...you will feel so much better! My daughter and I share a lot of the same medical history as you...I am scheduled for

the Sleeve and my daughter is considering it. We have heard nothing but positive things, and I know some sleevers that have PCOS and are doing much better after WLS. I know some physicians reccommend this surgery to treat PCOS and infertility. Good luck!!! Shelley

[SmokyMtnGal2011 10]

:welcome: Ber, you are among friends and fellow obese people but not for long. You will be on the losers bench in no time and be glad every day of your new life you did this WLS early in life. I am 55 and wish this had been available to me at 30. Don't be scared, sounds like you have the determination to make this work for you!!!!! You are worth it and welcome to the winning team to healthy life. Please keep us posted on your journey. :whoo:

[Nancy Rivers 24]

Welcome and congrats on the decision! Feel free to ask anything!

[losetobemeagain 9]

Congrats and Welcome

[Diamondeyed 399]

My name is Diamond and I am contemplating the Vgs....is anyonr familar with a link from my chunky channel..where she videos the whole process if you know how to get to that link let me know.....thanks

[mouse trap 5]

welcome.. I have found sooo much valuable information on this site.. I think its a great place to shed your tears with out any reservations.., MT wishing you all the best in your journey.....

[wishes 125]

You are definitely in the right place to find the support and information you need on the VSG surgery. I hope you are never afraid to ask questions and that you can find a place to really feel comfortable. Welcome to the forum! There is always someone on here at whatever stage you are at.