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I cant believe I did this!!! I was scheduled for surgery June 13th which was cancelled cause the two surgeons couldn't coordinate their time together, so Im pre-oping it alllll week, which is a wonder for me. I was soooo iritable just a short while ago, I ate like a mad man :(:(:( and im soooooooooooooo upset. I have no control at all. Im sitting here having second thoughts whether or not I should even keep going. Plz someone.....give me some good advise, and keep telling me how I have to do this, cause for me there's no other way! thanks for listening.

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don't be so hard on yourself. First of all your still doing the pre-op with no date set yet. That s great! I'm pre-op and failed the first day. But tomorrow is a new day to try again. Don't beat yourself over this. Try again and keep your eye on the future :)

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I cant believe I did this!!! I was scheduled for surgery June 13th which was cancelled cause the two surgeons couldn't coordinate their time together, so Im pre-oping it alllll week, which is a wonder for me. I was soooo iritable just a short while ago, I ate like a mad man :(:(:( and im soooooooooooooo upset. I have no control at all. Im sitting here having second thoughts whether or not I should even keep going. Plz someone.....give me some good advise, and keep telling me how I have to do this, cause for me there's no other way! thanks for listening.

I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I only have to do liquids for ONE day...the day before my surgery, and I'm already dreading it. Hang in there, and just start over from this point on. It's not easy or else we would have lost it and kept it off already!

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It's ok to be pissed off and upset, but not ok to stop dead in your tracks and not keep going forward! Remember the saying "if it's worth having, it's worth fighting for." ? It's SO true in this case. Your life IS worth fighting for. Put down the Haagan Daaz and step away from the freezer... :P LOL

Renee`

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