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So today is day 11 post op for me and until lunch te things were going fine!

I get so nurvous about eating around people that don't know that I ate way too fast and ended up being sick. It was so painful and now my new stomach feels so sore.

Then I got to car park to find my head teacher had parked so close to me that I had to shimmy over from the passenger side and I pulled the incisions and now everytime I move they hurt like crazy! I'm sure the stupid head teacher does this on purpose as she is a tiny size uk 4 and looks down her nose at me all the time!!!!

Ahhhhhhh I hurt and I wanna cry!

Bad bad bad day !!!!

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I would ding her car so badly with your door. . . what she is doing is totally wrong (so is dinging it, but revenge is sweet) First off she should park properly and not be a lane hog! Can't the campus police (if you have those) give her a ticket or something for that?

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I'm sorry you're having such a rough day!! :angry: One thing that annoys me to NO END are inconsiderate people. I guess I just like to be treated the way I tread others. I take care not to park to close to others - etc.

You might want to just give your Dr. a call to see about your stitches coming out. It's probably not a big deal, but you never know!! More trouble is better to catch now rather than later.

I do hope your day gets better! If it makes you feel any better I also try to eat more normally in the company of others. I don't know why this is but it sure makes for misery later. It just makes it MORE apparent how different I am when I'm holding my belly looking miserable. LOL!!!

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Lol! Thank you all soooooo much this forum really is like having a sleeve family where everyone knows just how I feel! 

Today I am feeling so much better I went home and slept for 3 hours!!! And then had some yummy home made chicken Soup ( always comforter )

I have an appointment with my surgeon on Friday so I will have him look at my poor incisions then.

I also spoke to the head teacher today and asked her to be more considerate with her parking ( she knows I had surgery just not what for) she still looked at me like I was a fat cow but did apologise! Skinny bitch!!!! Next time she'll get the key! Lol

I'm sticking with Soup again for a few days but that's cool as I like soup.

Thank you all again for being so lovely!

Mwah 

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So today is day 11 post op for me and until lunch te things were going fine!

I get so nurvous about eating around people that don't know that I ate way too fast and ended up being sick. It was so painful and now my new stomach feels so sore.

Then I got to car park to find my head teacher had parked so close to me that I had to shimmy over from the passenger side and I pulled the incisions and now everytime I move they hurt like crazy! I'm sure the stupid head teacher does this on purpose as she is a tiny size uk 4 and looks down her nose at me all the time!!!!

Ahhhhhhh I hurt and I wanna cry!

Bad bad bad day !!!!

Hey Fairyfaye,

Your headteacher sounds like a right cow! That is just rude... take no notice of her and raise above it... she really isn't worth it. I work in a school, I am a teacher, and at lunch time if I am asked why I am eating soooo little, I just say that I am on a cal controlled diet. Last week I had a phase of greek youghurt for lunch, and a few comment 'is that all you are going to have?' ... I just said 'yep!' and sat there and enjoyed every mouthful! No one would have said that to a skinny person!!!

I am well impressed that you are back to work on day 11... I had my sleeve done in line with the 6 weeks hols. I don't think I could have returned to work in under 2 weeks, so well done! Remember, you'll have the last laugh! =]

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Remember, you'll have the last laugh! =]

SO TRUE!! :D

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Hey coops

Thank you so much for that I went back to work on day 5! My head really is such a cow I didnt want to miss too much time from school!

I have now told people I'm doing a liquid diet and that seems to have shut them up. I am very lucky to have some very good friends who I have told and after my distaster day yesterday they are acting like a protective blanket around me! They understand why I have chosen this option and are so supportive I am very luck to have them!

And yes I will have the last laugh! Lol

Hope you are well and keep enjoying that Greek yogurt!

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<font color="#000080" size="4">It never ceases to amaze me how stupid and plain rude people are. They have no compassion or understanding for other folks who are trying to correct a health problem. I hope your incisions are OK, and for sure the last laugh will be on the ignorant ones who fail to think about another's well being.:D

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