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I'm pre-op and have lost about 11 lbs. on the pre-op diet. I feel lighter already and sex is better. Maybe it's psychological because I believe this will be the last time I lose that particular 11 lbs. But really, how much better is it after losing 100 lbs. or so? I so can't wait!

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Ok, this is kind of random but I thought I would add my 2 cents. Since my surgery, I have had dreams of sex with my husband EVERY night, no lie. My stomache is pretty sore so I don't think I am quite ready physically, but I can't wait!

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For me personally, it is so much better. I have lost over 100 pounds in total. I can move better, am more flexible, don't get out of breath and overall I feel more sexual having lost weight. I am not as self consious . My boyfriend has even commented that the sex is much better, like when we first started dating 5 years ago (I am finally the same weight as when we met)!

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I've only lost around 65-70 pounds but it makes a huge difference. My big belly isn't in the way anymore. It's a much smaller belly. And most of my rolls are gone. I can now be on top and it feels great. My husband and I are acting like a bunch of teenagers

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It's sooo much better. I'm way more flexible than before and I still have a long way to go as far as my weight loss goes, so I would say yes, the sex is drastically better lol

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