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I must say that reading all of these replys has helped me. I have already called a counslor and am just waiting for an appointment time that is convenient for both of us.

I realize that now that I can run a mile without feeling like my chest is going to explode has also increased my libido 100 fold.

I realize that even though there are a lot of "Saul bashers" out there, some of you can empathize with me.

I realize that my wife is the best thing that has ever occurred to me and no blonde hottie is worth giving that up for.

So yes, it feels great to be a sex object to other women and it feels great to be propositioned, but I AM STAYING HOME!

There ya go! Enjoy the attention from other women from afar, but make sure your wife knows that you are hers and hers alone.

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Saul,

Good for you! You deserve the best and so does your wife. I certainly did not intend to be a basher........ I do think that you being honest about what is happening is a good thing. You were needing advice and you got it! Good for you for acting on it!! Good luck. Keep us posted.

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I realize that my wife is the best thing that has ever occurred to me and no blonde hottie is worth giving that up for.

So yes, it feels great to be a sex object to other women and it feels great to be propositioned, but I AM STAYING HOME!

You just got SEXIER Saul.

Atta Boy!!

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Saul that was a brave move you made. I wish you and your wife the best. When there is love all things can be handled.

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I'm glad to see your message too, Saul. Good marriages are irreplaceable, and I wish you and your wife all the best of a long, healthy life together!!

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