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So my family has been really into the exercise thing for the past couple weeks. Me, my 26yo sister and my 24yo sister all went to our informational session today. It actually relieved alot of fears when I saw the sleeve and the differences between that and the RNY. I think my 2 sisters are getting that but I feel the sleeve is more my style. Our doctor is Dr. Ahuja, in Southern Illinois. He looks pretty young in person, about 17 actually, but he seems really laid back and very one on one with people which I really like. Something he said that really clicked was that we are basically marrying him and his bariatric staff because we will be seeing them alot for the rest of our lives.

So to introduce myself a little (because I have a feeling I will be here alot)...I am Elizabeth. 28. Married. Mommy to an almost 7yo daughter.

I will openly admit right now...I have a weakness for pizza. That is actually my ONLY food weakness. I went from drinking a good 2 liter or more of Mt Dew to NOTHING since Jan 1,2011. Somehow I avoided the caffeine withdrawal headaches. Now i just need to change my mind frame about pizza. I suppose I associate it with my childhood.

I plan to start the Protein Shakes NOW, even though I don't even have a surgery appointment yet! I figure any weight I lose now is an added bonus to the surgery weight lose. Plus it gets me in the habit of life after surgery! I'm sure it will make the liquid post-op diet easier to handle.

My initial doctor appointment is June 2nd. My sister also has her appt that day and my other sister's is June 9th. I still need to make my psych appt which should be fun...considering I was a psych major. I will TRY to refrain from telling him what I think is wrong with me and let him do his job.

I am hoping to get down to about 150-175. I have a long way to go but I have already taken the first step.

And now I leave you with a poem that really hit me as far as staying strong, being confident...I'm sure you have heard it...

With nothing to lose and the world to gain

Plain arched its back and did proclaim

That plain would never be the same

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I am in Central Illinois - it would be great to have a meet up if you are ever interested! I am hoping to be sleeved in July/August!

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Dr. Ahuja is my surgeon as well. :) I may have even seen you in support group meetings and never would have known!

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I am almost 8 weeks post-op & I have had pizza! Don't worry. You will not have to live a life without it :)

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Welcome, Elizabeth!! How cool that you and your sisters are taking the journey together!! :)

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