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So Monday is my day!!! I am sooo excited but very nervous. I guess my major concern is complications. I have a 3 yr old son and he is my entire life. If anything happens I do not have family to take him in. I am doing this to get healthy so I can be there for him for years to come, It is exhausting just playing with him and I want to cherish these moments with him. But the thought of never seeing him again scares me. My mom died when I was 3 so it just brings up a lot of issues. My other concern is failing. I have about 150 lbs to lose. I have been very open about this surgery to just about anyone who will listen lol. I especially like to bring up tiffykins posts and replies when someone smarts off to me about surgery or just has a question. But I fail what will they think. I have never been small. When I was 14 I was in a size 22. I have gotten down to 160 when I was 16 but I never thought I was small. My goal is 150. I am big bones (yes I really am..not an excuse...I just know Ill never be 120 because Im not built like that) but I want try maybe 140. I would really love any advice people on here can give me in regards to losing and what worked for you. I know exercise is very important and will be doing as much of it as I can. I know that I can lose weight very quickly when motivated but I have always gained it back but can you tell me your weight loss stats at about say 5 months out? I have a wedding in June and I know that I most likely will not have lost all I have to lose but I hope to at least make a pretty good dent in it. I understand everyone is different but Im just curious.

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Sending all my best vibes on a pain free and speedy recovery to start your new healthy life.

Thank you!

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So Monday is my day!!! I am sooo excited but very nervous. I guess my major concern is complications. I have a 3 yr old son and he is my entire life. If anything happens I do not have family to take him in. I am doing this to get healthy so I can be there for him for years to come, It is exhausting just playing with him and I want to cherish these moments with him. But the thought of never seeing him again scares me. My mom died when I was 3 so it just brings up a lot of issues. My other concern is failing. I have about 150 lbs to lose. I have been very open about this surgery to just about anyone who will listen lol. I especially like to bring up tiffykins posts and replies when someone smarts off to me about surgery or just has a question. But I fail what will they think. I have never been small. When I was 14 I was in a size 22. I have gotten down to 160 when I was 16 but I never thought I was small. My goal is 150. I am big bones (yes I really am..not an excuse...I just know Ill never be 120 because Im not built like that) but I want try maybe 140. I would really love any advice people on here can give me in regards to losing and what worked for you. I know exercise is very important and will be doing as much of it as I can. I know that I can lose weight very quickly when motivated but I have always gained it back but can you tell me your weight loss stats at about say 5 months out? I have a wedding in June and I know that I most likely will not have lost all I have to lose but I hope to at least make a pretty good dent in it. I understand everyone is different but Im just curious.

I'm so excited for you!

I'm thinking good thoughts and sending them your way;-)

Please post as soon as you can after your surgery to let us know how you're doing.

Best wishes,

Cheri

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I'm so excited for you!

I'm thinking good thoughts and sending them your way;-)

Please post as soon as you can after your surgery to let us know how you're doing.

Best wishes,

Cheri

Will do!! And thank you!

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I had the same feelings and they are normal. Keep visualizing all the things you haven't been able to do with your son that you will be able to do. You are doing this out of love for yourself and your child.:rolleyes:

The most important thing you can do to help your recovery after the surgery is walk, walk, walk. You will probably have a rollercoaster of emotions the first week, so be sure you have help with your little one. Rememember, these feelings are temporary and you have the rest of your life to be happy and healthy. I will say some prayers for you....please keep us posted.

REMEMBER TO THINK POSITIVE AND KEEP FOCUSED ON YOUR LONG TERM GOALS!! YOU WILL DO GREAT!!!

I'm 19 days out and feel totally fine :)

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Next Monday is my day and I know how you feel. I just keep telling myself that the benefits far outweigh the risks. Have faith! Praying that all goes well for you and me too!

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Good luck! I was 62 when I had surgery and had fears too. I didn't sleep a wink the night before. I will be sending positive thoughts your way tonight and tomorrow!

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Good luck tomorrow! Will be keeping you in prayer. This really is a new start - a tool to help you lose weight. You still must watch what you eat, but now it will be easier. I have no regrets because now I can be in control.

Hugs!

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