the problem with waiting...

[maggieb 0]

I'm so glad this forum is here - this is my first entry. I was all set to have gastric plication last week but came down with a mystery rash. The dermatologist took a biopsy thinking it looked like a problem (I'm 63 and a cancer survivor) and said that I shouldn't have elective surgery until this cleared up. Well, it cleared up quickly but I put off my trip to Mexico for surgery. I've rescheduled for Feb. 17th. Meanwhile, having been really ready then - now I'm in a real funk. Not eating right, feeling depressed, and not taking such great care of myself. I've had lots of diet defeats and that's what this feels like. Nothing like a setback to set you back! I'm pretty good at knowing what to do - eat right and exercise and do thinks that make me happy - but I'm feeling stuck. I guess the time involved in coming to a decision about surgery and making the investment in doing it is emotionally powerful and the delay kind of took the wind out of my sails.

My surgery is in Tijuana with Dr. Corvala at Hospital Angeles on 2/17. Will I see any of you there?

[Eloray 3]

I am sorry about your setback. I almost had one myself as well. When your mind and heart is set on something and it doesnt go the way you thougt it would it SUCKS. Now that is said turn yourself around and take the advantage of the extra days you have. Set a goal of some sort challenge yourself to lose an extra 5 pounds. Start an exercise routine to make yourself stronger. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself. Do some service. Get your house in order thats what help me get through this last month. Just stop complaining and get doing. Happy days will be yours soon.