LilMissDiva Irene 3,282 Posted January 31, 2011 Hey Vickie S, Please lady, don't be so hard on yourself. You ARE losing... and that is the bottom line. So what if you don't lose as fast as some others. You can't let that get into your head - you have to keep positive and remain humbled by the simple fact the pounds are coming off. You're obviously doing something right or you wouldn't lose at all or would be gaining your weight back. So instead of calling yourself a failure and thinking bad things about yourself, you should be jumping up and down, screaming from the rooftops - "I LOST 20 LBS -- YEAHHHH!!!" In reality your journey has just begun. Give yourself a break. May your weight loss continue, regardless of how fast. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites