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What is a reasonable amount of time I need to deal with all the tenderness? I overdid things on Post-op day 4 and am paying dearly for it. I was feeling good, but now my largest incision is giving me sharp pains and hates me. I am back to taking the pain meds every 4 hours to keep comfortable. This is the largest incision and otherwise doing ok (no redness, swelling, drainage).

I just can't stand the sharp pains like I keep pulling something inside.

So how long did the tenderness last all together for your incision(s)?

Thanks!

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Call your doctor, I wouldn't toy around with those.

Once I got the tape off, there were little crusts, and my husband was joking that he probably couldn't stop himself from poking around at those.

I am usually worst with scabs and crusts BUT I kept reminding myself that these incisions are not a scabby crust from a scratch.

THEY USED TO BE AN UNRESTRICTED PATH TO YOUR LIVER, YOUR STOMACH AND ALL OTHER ORGANS :o

Call the doc, no one here can really tell you what to do, we are not docs and every pain, every problem is different with most individuals.

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Upon discharge from the hospital, my dr said It's not uncommon to have a sharp pain coming from that largest incision for another 4-6 wks when i moved wrong or did something to 'upset' it. It would be a feeling that could bring me to my knees, and I would think that i ripped something, my intestines is about to fall out or something drastic.. but it's ok and normal.

So with that, I 'assume' what i'm feeling is normal, esp b/c my dr called yesterday for a follow-up and i explained how i overdid things on Sunday and now what i was feeling.. She reminded me i just had major surgery, and in fact one of my organs is half missing and trying to heal as well. That i need to take it easy and rest.

So i'm assuming what i'm feeling is on par for what i did. I have no other issues with anything (stoma, other incisions, internal organ pain...).

There has GOT to be someone out there with tenderness as well?? I mean, not everyone can be feeling like they're on top of the world at 6 days post-op, right?? :unsure:

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I had a burning stabbing pain in my biggest incision for almost 8 weeks after surgery. I had to ask for a refill on my pain meds.

all is good now though, I am 6 months post op and no more pain

Hope you feel better soon

Sherri

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I had the sharp, burning pain also from my largest incision (actually just below) and it eventually spread to my side sometimes. I had to ask for a refill of pain meds. I am finally feeling better most of the time unless I overdo it...which started the problem in the first place. =)

It took about 2 1/2 weeks for mine to feel better (from when it started...1 1/2 weeks out). Good luck.

btw, when it feels pretty good and you THINK you are ok....DON"T scrub the kitchen floor on your hands and knees..it WILL come back with a vengence! ohmy.gif

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yes, this pain! Ok, it started when i overdid it, and not surprised it's still around. Thanks for the info...

I had a burning stabbing pain in my biggest incision for almost 8 weeks after surgery. I had to ask for a refill on my pain meds.

all is good now though, I am 6 months post op and no more pain

Hope you feel better soon

Sherri

I had the sharp, burning pain also from my largest incision (actually just below) and it eventually spread to my side sometimes. I had to ask for a refill of pain meds. I am finally feeling better most of the time unless I overdo it...which started the problem in the first place. =)

It took about 2 1/2 weeks for mine to feel better (from when it started...1 1/2 weeks out). Good luck.

btw, when it feels pretty good and you THINK you are ok....DON"T scrub the kitchen floor on your hands and knees..it WILL come back with a vengence! ohmy.gif

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Holy craps, for realz? This is considered normal?

The only thing that was bugging me was the itchy glue from the tape - I guess I was VERY lucky

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I had the sharp, burning pain also from my largest incision (actually just below) and it eventually spread to my side sometimes. I had to ask for a refill of pain meds. I am finally feeling better most of the time unless I overdo it...which started the problem in the first place. =)

It took about 2 1/2 weeks for mine to feel better (from when it started...1 1/2 weeks out). Good luck.

btw, when it feels pretty good and you THINK you are ok....DON"T scrub the kitchen floor on your hands and knees..it WILL come back with a vengence! ohmy.gif

How long after surgery do you have to wait before you CAN do that sort of work? (not that I do it often, I am just wondering about the recovery)

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JDR - I am 5 weeks out now. I scrubbed the floor last week at 4 weeks (of course I had that pain before and THOUGHT I was doing better). Personally, I don't want it to come back so I would not do it yet. I am sure not everyone had this...but I do feel the familiar twinges still when I am doing a TON of errands (especially at Christmas). So...I will not do it for at least a few weeks.

I also feel a little tender after pushing the vacuum (it is pretty hard to push anyway). If I can't get one of my kids to vacuum...I do it. BUT I am not doing it everyday like normal...maybe every two days. (I have 6 kiddos and our family room gets A LOT of use) I also have to sweep daily (sometimes twice!) to keep up with the traffic, etc. Who said being a stay-at-home mom is bon bons and ice cream? LOL. I WISH I could just sit and read a book. haha.

ods's alarm just went off....5 am...time to start the day.

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I just wanted to say, I felt great on day 4 & 5, really didn't overdo it. Then on day 6 a new pain started especially in that lower left incision. I had to start taking the pain meds. I figured it was the scar tissue forming. I started gentle stretching, gentle massages, and the heating pad. After a day and a half,I dropped to having the pain med only at night. After about four more days, no more pain med and just used the heating pad for about 30 min before I fell asleep. Hope this helps.

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I'm in my 3rd week and I've been trying to take things very slowly, my family's been very, very supportive. But I have a rambunctious 15 month old and last night I stretched too far while I was trying to stop her from pulling down a large plant. Needless to say, I immediately felt it on my left side, not to the point where I saw stars but definitely a reminder that I'm still healing and need to take things S-L-O-W.

I've read on other posts that it'll probably take about 6 weeks for our bodies to get back to 85% healed so if at all possible, take it easy until then.

Good luck!

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