In Need of a Friend/Mentor

[MaMa-C-Ta 0]

Hi. My name is Rebecca. I'm having my VSG surgery next week on Dec 15th. I have 2 kids: an almost-3 year old daughter and a 16 year old step-son. My husband and I don't have any other family close by and don't socialize too much (work & kids take up all of our time). I'm very scared and nervous of the surgery and of having complications develop and would love some support from a veteran. My husband has done his best to read up on my surgery and post-surgery diet/possible complications/etc. but he does not understand what I am going through. My extended family is against me having the surgery. I'm reaching out....hope someone is there. Thanks.

[Eureka-C 20]

Hi. My name is Rebecca. I'm having my VSG surgery next week on Dec 15th. I have 2 kids: an almost-3 year old daughter and a 16 year old step-son. My husband and I don't have any other family close by and don't socialize too much (work & kids take up all of our time). I'm very scared and nervous of the surgery and of having complications develop and would love some support from a veteran. My husband has done his best to read up on my surgery and post-surgery diet/possible complications/etc. but he does not understand what I am going through. My extended family is against me having the surgery. I'm reaching out....hope someone is there. Thanks.

Glad you are joining us. There are quite a few supportive people on here. I started the whole process in June and finally had surgery on 11/22. I am not a veteran, but will keep an eye out for your posts. Best of luck and congrats.

[lissi 15]

Hi Rebecca,

I don't consider myself a veteran, but can tell ya that I had my surgery 4/8/10 and it was the best decision I ever made for myself. Your concerns and worries are normal. I thought of so many things that could possibly go wrong, but then I thought of all the good and positive that could come out of it. I have a new life and I'm able to do things with my kids that I couldn't do before. My outlook and attitude has changed and I'm a much happier person now that I'm healthier. Focus on positive thoughts and continue to find the support you need on this site. I will say a prayer for you...everything will we fine!