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I'm not REALLY gay' date=' I'm only sort of moderately gay.

Which means I am ***** and have had loads of ***** relationships- but I fell in love with and married a man... Which to most of my ***** friends means that I lost my LGBTQ card:([/quote']

Same boat! Just engaged though.

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Welcome all newcomers: ) This thread seems to go through busy/not so much activity. Nice to see a few new "faces".

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Hii all - wanted to say my helllos. I was just sleeved on 10/16/12 and unexpectatedly found myself all in love with an amazing woman this year for the first time. A year of many firsts for me =o) .. We moved in together 2 weeks before my surgery, I know going thru this can be hard on any relationship so I'm hoping we can work thru it, she's been extremely supportive so far.

Anyways - I'm already down 40 lbs since my pre-op diet began and I'm super excited to get my skinny girl on .. And to drink again so I can get back out and shake my smaller (but hopefully not too small!) booty =o)!

I see this forum is not as active as I was hoping but always looking for friends to talk to, good luck to everyone!

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welcome skinny girl. wtg on WL

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I know activity on this thread is pretty sporadic, but I just wanted to say hello. I am the B in GBLT, presently in a heterosexual relationship. I love all of my GBLT (and straight) brothers and sisters! I am still pre-surgery, but I am glad to have found such a supportive space to share this journey.

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It seems like this forum has been abandoned!

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I know. This is were the gays come to die.

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Hahahaha! That's one way to put it! We are usually such a lively bunch too....hmmm.

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I know! Wtf! Lol

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Let me get out of here if this is where we constitute die(•)(•) lol I'm not ready!

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I'll do my best to revive this thread a little:

Just wanted to share that I recently told one of my gay besties about my intention to have WLS and, so far, he is the only person that is 100% supportive of my decision. He just wants me to be happy and healthy.

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Um, hey, no one is allowed to die here at VST, so you guys better get busy and liven things up here!

Sent from my iPad using VST

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