Cancel 1 Posted May 27, 2010 I can feel you're pain. I also wear a CPAP. I have been using it diligently since December. This is my third try with it. Two times before I gave it back. Now I can't sleep without it. You have to get a mask that works for you. There are literally hundreds on the market each with small differences. They even have special pillows for people who are belly and side sleepers. I like you couldn't handle it at first but found that if I used Carmex lip balm on my lips before I went to sleep it kept me from gettinb too dried out at night. It actually worked, after about 3 days I noticed i woke up at 6:00am (my usual wake up time) and it was still on. Oh, and don't keep it too tight a small leak is acceptable. If you would like to PM me I can give you more info, I'm a Respiratory therapist and work for a sleep center so I may be able to give you more tips based on what you are experiencing. Hope this helps and just keep trying.It'll get better and the benefits are worth it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ouroborous 519 Posted May 27, 2010 It really does get better, and it's SO important to get a mask that fits you, doesn't leak, and (perhaps most importantly) works with your preferred sleep position. I'm a back sleeper, so the last one doesn't affect me much, but folks who sleep on their stomachs or sides may have to shop around a little. Don't give up -- once you get the CPAP working properly, it's a miracle, truly. You won't BELIEVE how differently you feel. Of course, at this point, I'm hoping to kick the CPAP entirely, but even if that doesn't happen, I wouldn't trade it for anything. A good night's sleep is priceless. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Catbert6 0 Posted May 29, 2010 I have been using a CPAP machine for 15 years - it has been a life saver and I do not know how I would have gotten by without it. I can only reiterate the advice of others in this thread - the key is finding a mask that works for you - like an earlier poster I use a gel mask that just covers my nose. For a short time, due to damage to my palate, I had to use one covering my nose and mouth and found that more cumbersome. But your medical support should be able to get one that fits and works for you - there is so much variety these days and the masks are so much more comfortable and do much less damage to skin (in the early days I was warned about something charmingly called "toilet seat face" where the pressure from the mask would make a permanent red indentation around your nose - remarkably similar in appearance to a toilet seat!) that they have no excuse for not looking after you well. That said, I wish I had not had sleep apnoea - many missed opportunities to go camping and sleep rough etc - and will be interested to see whether the VSG and (hopefully) subsequent weight loss will cure a long time CPAP user like me. Best wishes Bob, Canberra, Australia Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BandMomsRock 0 Posted May 31, 2010 Hey, Maddie. Hope you are doing better with your CPAP. I finally had 3 nights in a row without taking off the mask in the middle of the night. It's been about 3 1/2 weeks for me now and I think I'm finally getting used to it. I was haven't serious doubts at first that I would get used to the CPAP, but finally, I think it's gonna be OK. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maddie 9 Posted May 31, 2010 Terri, 3 nights in a row sounds TERRIFIC! I'm still working at it. Thanks again to everyone for suggestions and encouragement, it really helps. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lorden88 1 Posted May 31, 2010 Hi Maddie, I started using a C-PAP just over one year ago. My doctor prescribed a mild sedative for me to use when I first started using it to make the transition a little easier. I was miserable the first week or so but finally was able to get use to it. Now I really notice a difference in my energy level if a skip a night. It has really helped me feel much more rested. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites