kalex21211 0 Posted May 17, 2010 Thanks yall for being so great! My consult is scheduled for tomorrow at 3pm. Hubby is coming around, thank goodness! I am doing the right thing for me....and I have almost got the money I need. As far as why he is telling me to figure it out, that doesnt mean he isnt helping with that, just that it is one of those things that I am doing....it all comes out of the same pot in the end.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lmmore 0 Posted May 17, 2010 Glad to hear things are getting better. It's best when you have the support. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FabBy50 0 Posted May 18, 2010 So how did your surgery consult go? I hope everthing is fine and that you have a date set now!! Good luck, we will always be here for you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kalex21211 0 Posted May 19, 2010 My consult went great and I am scheduled for June 28!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thinoneday 445 Posted May 19, 2010 Why is it that the ones we love and who love us, hurt us the most? I'm sorry that he did that to you. But you know, it may be his own insecurities coming out. He might be saying these hurtful things cause he knows it'll work as it has for your sister. Husbands are weird creatures of habit, they think if they can hurt you enough, you'll just forget about it and stay the same. . it's a comfort thing for them. Believe me been there, done that. . . you go forward and get that surgery, it'll work for you just as it has for me! Your going to be so proud of yourself and your going to like yourself again! Good luck honey, don't let him get you down! He's only doing it cause he is starting to worry some. . . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FabBy50 0 Posted May 20, 2010 CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! On getting a date!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maddie 9 Posted May 21, 2010 Gratz on getting a date! That's awesome. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kalex21211 0 Posted May 22, 2010 For work reasons, I called and changed my surgery date to June 21.....Woohoo! A week earlier for me!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pnw218 14 Posted May 22, 2010 much better than a week later : ) hope it all goes great for you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites