Let's get this singles forum going!

[Lee 19]

Daisy, I think it's great to play the field! Way to go shoving your food onto his plate. That made me smile.

[Burton Fletcher 0]

I look forward to dating again. I am mentally fit, and when I am again physcially fit I'll be ready to bring a lot of value to a relationship. I am a retired college and university professor, with a background in management, marketing and law.

I am a licensed lawyer in Georgia and I own www.GeorgiaLoanClosers.com a loan closing business in Georgia.

I had my surgery in Tijuana on 02/20/2010. The experience was not perfect, but the doctor was excellent and the folks I was with were exceptional. I am dropping weight and am looking forward to being on this journey with others.

I'm 59, SWM, non-religious, 5'9" tall. I think it would be great to be in a relationship with a woman who truly understands our journey and our road to recovery.

Email me if you desire: Burton@GeorgiaLoanClosers.com.

[Lee 19]

Hey Burton,

Nice to meet you. We're the same age. I wish I was as tall as you. I live in California.

Keep us updated on your journey!

[LAN2k 18]

OMG I can't believe you pushed most of your food onto his plate!! It's straight out of a sit-com (sp?) very cute. Glad it went well. Cheers to you Daisy.

[Itstime 0]

Yea Daisy,

Glad you had a good time, hope many more!!

[Burton Fletcher 0]

I look forward to dating again. I am mentally fit, and when I am again physcially fit I'll be ready to bring a lot of value to a relationship. I am a retired college and university professor, with a background in management, marketing and law.

I am a licensed lawyer in Georgia and I own www.GeorgiaLoanClosers.com a loan closing business in Georgia.

I had my surgery in Tijuana on 02/20/2010. The experience was not perfect, but the doctor was excellent and the folks I was with were exceptional. I am dropping weight and am looking forward to being on this journey with others.

I'm 59, SWM, non-religious, 5'9" tall. I think it would be great to be in a relationship with a woman who truly understands our journey and our road to recovery.

Email me if you desire: Burton@GeorgiaLoanClosers.com.

Surgeon: Dr. Mario Almanza

DOS: 02/20/2010

[kermit_ojp 0]

So update.....

Things still going great with Mr. Intellectual! I like him more and more everyday, and even got him to join the gym with me.

The only thing is...he's really inexperienced with women. Like, really, really. Something I am not used to. He's only had one real girlfriend before me, and he's 40. I can't seem to get past that.

Any ideas? Can guys be taught at that age??? lol

Ugh...not that sex is everything...but it's pretty important to me.

Is this too much information??? haha

[Burton Fletcher 0]

Go slow, very slow. If you are satisfied with a fling, then you don't risk a lot, except STDs. Someone without sexual partners may have deeper issues than you may see on the surface. Good luck.

[Tiffykins 673]

So update.....

Things still going great with Mr. Intellectual! I like him more and more everyday, and even got him to join the gym with me.

The only thing is...he's really inexperienced with women. Like, really, really. Something I am not used to. He's only had one real girlfriend before me, and he's 40. I can't seem to get past that.

Any ideas? Can guys be taught at that age??? lol

Ugh...not that sex is everything...but it's pretty important to me.

Is this too much information??? haha

Even though I'm not single, I just want to comment on the inexperienced lover thing.

And, no, it's not too much information.

My husband was not very experienced before me. He had 3 other partners/girlfriends, and while he knew the mechanics, it took awhile for us to figure each other out. Things were hot and heavy when we were doing the long distance relationship thing. Once we moved in together, things calmed down, once we were married, and took on the father/husband role, our sex life when to the other end of the spectrum. It's more intimate, not as dirty, and adventurous, but least to say, it's much more pleasurable than it was before. Maybe it's because we are more connected emotionally and mentally.

For the most part, John was easy to guide into what I liked and didn't like. I was ummm a bit more experienced, okay, a lot more experienced, but realized real quick that he was different than any man I had ever been with.

Anyways, every man and woman can be shown what you like and don't like. I definitely recommend watching porn together (if you're into that), and role playing always helps.

Surprising John always helps ramp things up for us. . .

I'm with you that sex is a big thing in a relationship. I feel like if it isn't happening in the bedroom, then it isn't going to happen out of the bedroom.

And, while I see Burton's point about limited sexual experience, John told me after we had been together for awhile that he wishes he would have saved himself for me. John is not the average 27 yr old man when it comes to sex. It's something to be cherished, and not taken lightly. He is the most loving, sweet, and passionate lover I've ever had, and while sometimes it's nice to be called a "dirty slut" John could never utter those words to me because he says "I respect you, and our love way too much to see you like that". We're still a work in progress.

[kermit_ojp 0]

OMG...I'm at work right now, and don't have time to comment, Tiff. But your last part is cracking me up right now.

I am totally with you on everything you've said! lol

More later!

[Tiffykins 673]

OMG...I'm at work right now, and don't have time to comment, Tiff. But your last part is cracking me up right now.

I am totally with you on everything you've said! lol

More later!

Ya know, a good slap on the a$$ never hurt anyone, it took me 2 years to get John to do that or pull my hair, seriously ! ! ! Like I said, we're a work in progress.

If you watched Sex and the City, remember when Charlotte married her husband and he couldn't have sex with her because he respected her too much or saw her as his virginal wife, ummm yeah that was us for awhile.

Least to say, it's been interesting since I've lost weight ha ha ha.

[loser 0]

This has gotten very interesting.

Ask him about his fantasies and tell him some of yours.. He may just be sexual beast hiding in the closet.:001_tongue::drool::blushing::001_tt1:

[Lee 19]

*going to open the closets*

Nope, nobody in there. DARN!

[Chancie 65]

Boy ........ Have I missed alot!!!

Not much going on here. My guy from the internet, just wasnt for me.. nice guy and all.... but apparently we talked better over the internet than in person.

I'm chatting with a few- just seeing whats out there. and there are a bunch of nut cases!! LOL

Wanna say they love you??? :001_unsure: And only talked like 3 times??? Insane!!

Anyway. not giving up........ but peeking in my closet.. and nope..... no one there either!!!!:confused1:

[Lee 19]

Chancie, why is it so much easier to connect over the net? I actually got engaged to someone I met on the net. He moved to California for six months and it was great. I moved to him home (out of state) and it just didn't work on his turf. I ended up moving back home. Thankfully I was able to get my job back and had left a few of my prized posessions with my son here at home.

Up to a year ago, dated a guy off and on for three years that answered my yahoo ad. It turned out that he lived a mile from me and we had a lot in common. In the end he wasn't my "one", but that was ok because I felt it from the start but it was fun to go out and play.