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Susan scares me.

I can't stand the "Holy than thou" crap and my way is the right way...Please tell it like it is.

I do like her Photoshop skills, but everytime I post (and it hasen't been that often lately) she finds something to add or pick apart.

my 2 cents

Yes I do love Leatha and Lisa, they have always been there for me with the truth, and it can hurt.

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Susan and I disagreed once but geesh, does that make her scary?

She's an awesome POSITIVE motivator and I love that about her. She remains consistent, persistent about making the band work. Even now that you just trashed her visciously, called her a stalker a troll, compared her to an elephant in a derogatory way...........she rose, out of the flames with dignity. Phoenix is what you should call her. She's the bigger person here (integrity) I admire that.

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For those of you that think the Moderators have a biased shame on you. WE do the best we can with what we have. We do not get paid we do this out of our own time away from our friends and families. It is a thankless job.

I will gladly give it up as some think you can do a better job. It isn't easy having to reprimand your friends all the time. It isn't easy calling a good friend and telling her to STOP this shit.

To those that keep posting comments and keep rehashing the same subject over and over what purpose does this serve?

As far as a moderator contributing to the troll talk I assume that was me. I wanted to make light of the whole subject and I guess that got lost on some. I don't consider myself part of any group, troll or sunshine sister or disgruntled failure at this point.

I am a struggling FAT woman trying to make her life better by dealing with more important issues than a bunch of women that can't even be civil to each other.

Sorry but that had to be said.

Everyone has their own opinions and you can either agree or disagree or agree to disagree.

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