Old Disgruntled Failure Forum

[DeLarla 22]

Penni, Alex, lock her up.

[leatha_g 4]

Amazing. Ladies, we came to this thread in order to not taint yours and it appears you couldn't help yourselves but to follow and instigate? WHY??

As I stated, unless you consider yourself Old, Disgruntled or a Failure, there is simply no reason for you to feel obligated to post here.

[Telly 4]

Jesus! Did DeLarla say all of that? Squad of trolls? OmG! That's integrity for ya.

[3loves 0]

Can I just say I'm getting my band on FRIDAY!!!

[DeLarla 22]

The only thing I'm ashamed of is that I haven't said anything sooner. The list of PMs and private e-mails with people thanking me for finally trying to shut certain people up is growing by the minute. One person and her few friends gets joy and satisfaction from stalking threads to the point of people dropping out of LBT and being afraid to post at all. It's no secret, and I've said it publicly before that innocent people are leaving LBT left and right because of you, Psusan. You hurt and insult while feigning innocence, which nobody buys. Hide behind your sheepish comments and BS emoticons all you want. You’ve invaded and destroyed what was once a beautiful thing. Why does everyone else have to leave LBT? Try some grace. This community has been destroyed.

Anybody else that thinks I need your opinion? Go ahead, reply with something judgmental and become a hypocrite. If you don't like it, go read something else!

Hurt? MY ASS!

[Telly 4]

I'm appalled at your comments DeLarla. You insult people and think you can get away with it. Time out for you!

[kim2bhealthy 3]

Mabtest.. for a brand new user, you've stumbled into a very heated thread.. didn't take you long to jump right in! Me, I'm scared to get in the middle of anything.. I'm glad to be getting my band on Friday too 3loves!

[HeatherGurl 0]

Maybe we should re-read the rules about directly insulting people Lisa. You are being SUPER ugly to Susan... if you want to say this stuff to her, you should PM her.

[Telly 4]

The only thing I'm ashamed of is that I haven't said anything sooner. The list of PMs and private e-mails with people thanking me for finally trying to shut certain people up is growing by the minute. One person and her few friends gets joy and satisfaction from stalking threads to the point of people dropping out of LBT and being afraid to post at all. It's no secret, and I've said it publicly before that innocent people are leaving LBT left and right because of you, Psusan. You hurt and insult while feigning innocence, which nobody buys. Hide behind your sheepish comments and BS emoticons all you want. You’ve invaded and destroyed what was once a beautiful thing. Why does everyone else have to leave LBT? Try some grace. This community has been destroyed.

Anybody else that thinks I need your opinion? Go ahead, reply with something judgmental and become a hypocrite. If you don't like it, go read something else!

Hurt? MY ASS!

Ok so you are their leader? This is like a wolf pack. One needs help and so they call the leader to come shut people up? You are soo wrong and you know it.

Stalking? Wow. Is this not Free Speech? Do we not have the right here? Give me a break.

What this sounds like is someone is being very paranoid here.

[leatha_g 4]

Alex, Penni, please lock the thread. We tried to remove ourselves from the disruption but were provoked over and over. It's plain to see.

You guys can have it.

[Telly 4]

Leatha what a bunch of bologna. You are the worst one of them all, pretty much starting the whole "Troll" thing. Go love yourself for that one and lock that up in the brain too.

[Telly 4]

Can't run from this one Delarla and Leatha......... it's not locked up yet so you can't just say something and run away, hoping the moderator will lock it up so you have the last word. That's too easy. Just stand here and realize that you were wrong to begin with. It's time for confession.

[leatha_g 4]

Thank you Telly. I'll take that under consideration. Is there anything else you'd like to share with me?

[moma 0]

I think that the "moderators" seem to have favorites. It appears that Lisa (DeLarla) and Sue (Geezer) and a few others have the "ear" of the "moderators".

This site has become really UGLY and NO FUN to post on. It is full of personal attacks and some really disgusting OT threads too (in my opinion.

It has become full of negative people who have hidden agendas that are negative to successfully banded individuals who may only be a few months out or a few years out.

This forum is also not the place for doctor's facilitators or Bariatric surgeons who don't even believe in this surgery. It is so unprofessional for these persons to post here.

People should also realize that NOTHING is PRIVATE that is posted on the internet and keep that in mind.

Obviously, there are many issues that should be addressed by a trained psychotherapist in that doctor's office and not in a forum like this. Psychothrophic drugs are not topics of discussion either or should medical advice be solicited or given as Sandy RN used to do on many sites.

I am so disgusted with the tone of this site and its negative vibes cannot be helpful to anyone. It has become a FREAK show (in my opinion).

If what I have said angers anyone, it should, because many people who are banded want to share their successes and failures with others who have had this surgery. I don't think that they signed up for the "soap opera" atmosphere that has been exhibited here lately.

Moderators, please do you job and get your heads out of the sand. The Sunshine Sisters post was trying to do what I am trying to say as I re-read the original post.

I hope that what I have to say will be thoughtfully digested before venomous comments appear.

[3loves 0]

Thanks Kim!!