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Not to be indelicate...but how long after surgery before it's safe to be intimate again?

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As soon as you are comfortable.

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Can we say like...3 weeks or something? Just so I can have a BREAK!?! Kidding, Kidding... ;-)

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Not to be indelicate...but how long after surgery before it's safe to be intimate again?

When I asked my doctor that he said "Not here, please!" LOL And then explained anytime in which it was not painful to do so...TMI here perhaps, but I believe we waited about 1-1/2 weeks.

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Not to be indelicate...but how long after surgery before it's safe to be intimate again?

My DH asked the same question! :lol: I jokingly told him 6 weeks (just like after my c-sections)! He was in shock! LOL! I am so mean.:thumbup:

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My husband thought it would be six weeks too....and he was pouting (it has been a a horrible year with all the band problems and the emergency c section)...... then I jumped him about an hour after we got the kids in bed the night I got home!

Still alive at this moment!

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I really can't remember how long I waited. I am sure it wasn't long because as soon as I got home from the hospital, I felt normal and really could not even tell I had surgery. I am betting it was the night I got home from the airport or the next morning.

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You guys are definitely making me feel better! Now I'll have something to do instead of eat.

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I really can't remember how long I waited. I am sure it wasn't long because as soon as I got home from the hospital, I felt normal and really could not even tell I had surgery. I am betting it was the night I got home from the airport or the next morning.

:confused1: That's what I'm talkin about!!!:thumbup1: I'm a girl who WANTS to partake in that kind of Activity.... Too much is never enough if you know what I mean- So .... I'm pretty sure as soon as my incisions are feeling comfy I will be all over the situation!!:001_tongue::lol0::001_tt2::biggrin2:

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:thumbup1: That's what I'm talkin about!!!:thumbup1: I'm a girl who WANTS to partake in that kind of Activity.... Too much is never enough if you know what I mean- So .... I'm pretty sure as soon as my incisions are feeling comfy I will be all over the situation!!:wink0::lol0::001_tt2::biggrin2:

um yeah, but there are positions where your incisions will not even be touched!

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um yeah, but there are positions where your incisions will not even be touched!

Yep this is true .... "necessity" is the mother of invention so they say ... and if you want it bad enough you'll figure it out!:wink0:

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I told my husband a year :-) I'm really mean. But he figured out I was kidding.

Oh Rosey -- you're so mean... but I love it! Might make him feel like 6 weeks isn't all that long eh?

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