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I just had to post this.

I've been struggling the last couple of months. Seems I've been gaining & losing the same 6-10 pounds.

Through this all, I've been going to the gym several times a week.

1. 2 weeks ago I ran into an intern who was returning to work after being away from our company since last (late) July. I was headed out of our office building and he was heading in. I said Hey--glad to see you're back, what's going on! He had a funny look on his face but he was unfailingly polite when we spoke. Cut to last night.

He and I and a couple of others went out last night to have a couple of beers (beer, I know). He said, you know, when I saw you a couple of weeks ago, I simply didn't recognize you.. You look alot different.

2. I was told by two different people yesterday that I looked "thin"

I told them it was because I had my shirt tucked in, was wearing a belt and had shoes with heels that made me around 6"tall.

3. Able to wear a size of 14 long jeans from American Eagle!

The thin part isn't so true, but OMG what a wonderful thing to hear.

Take that scale:)

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I love your story. That's a total NSV related to the S. :) They wanted to probably tell you that you are soo sesssi! But maybe it would have been unprofessional.

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That is a fabulous NSV, congrats!

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That's great. It also makes you realise that hiding in big baggy clothes fools nobody doesnt it? The minute I started wearing stuff that was a little more fitted, people started raving about how thin I'd gotten. I really hadnt, it was just that they actually hadnt seen the shape of my body for quite a few years.

I realised this once when I saw a girlfriend wearing a kaftan, lol. She always wore really tight stretchy clothes and was quite a big girl, we used to cringe (and yep, have a little bitch) about how she should dress properly for her size and age, then one day she walked into dinner at a restaurant wearing a big flowy shirt. I was the first one there and I honestly didnt recognise her, she looked at least 30kg heavier. I ditched all my "fat" clothes then and there, never wore anything huge again.

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