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Hello everyone. I am from Old Bethpage, NY and have decided on having lap band surgery. I will be using Dr. Geiss in Syosset NY.

I have two little kids, 1yr old boy and 4yr old girl. I have been overweight all my life and want to experience life in a new way.

I currently have high blood pressure and sleep apnea.

Thanks and I hope to learn a lot from this forum.

Kevin

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Welcome Its-time! You've found the right forum...there are a couple out there, but none as supportive and positive as this one. I am still a newbie - I've only had my band for 3 months today (yay me!) but in that time I've lost 46lbs, 40 inches, my type II diabetes is gone, my blood pressure is a textbook120/80 and {{{{drumroll}}}} my severe obstructive sleep apnea is a thing of the past!

You'll be such a happy, healthy and fun dad! This is one of the best things you could do for yourself and your family. My daughter and her friends are certainly much happier with the new me - I cut up with them even more now, chase them around the house and have more energy than they do...go figure! Ask plenty of questions, you'll learn more here than you will in seminars or from medical professionals, trust me.

Welcome and good luck to you!

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Hello Kevin,

Welcome and congrats on your decision to get banded.

I too have been overweight all my life and have finally reached goal. You have alot to look forward to and we'll help you get there.

I also have 3 young children (10, 6 and 2 yr olds) and just want you to know that not only is it possible to succeed being a busy dad, but both you and the family will benefit from this decision.

If you have any q's just ask :) Best of luck on your new journey

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Congratulations on your decision to become healthier, more active, and live longer. I haven't been banded yet am looking toward that in feb/ march 2014.... But I have to agree that this site is the most awesome thing since pockets.... Jump in and ask your questions or voice your concerns there are many experienced individuals on here willing to help....

Again welcome

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Congratulations on your decision and welcome! Best decision I ever made for myself and my family! :)

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Welcome Kevin I know you are in the right place. I have been a member since 9/14. You will find so much information it is awesome.

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Your family picture is beautiful...congratulations on your decision. This site has been wonderful and a wealth of information and support.

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we've all been there with that decision

do the best you can and arm yourself with knowledge but common sense and an understanding that WLS is not a miracle but a tool/aid to make you well and healthy.....i wish you all the best my friend.

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Welcome to our world of Banders! Listen to your bariatric medical people and use your tool and your path to good health is just ahead!

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