Must you judge?

[endingyoyo 28]

The only people I've told that I've had lap band is my husband, parents and brother. I don't want to be judged and I certainly don't want your comments.

As I was eating lunch today, I got the comment of 'I thought you had Lap band.' 'No kidding, you're really putting it down.'

I had egg salad (1 egg, 2egg whites), 1/4 avocado and 1oz Cracker Barrel cheese. Get offs back!

I'm cranky, rant over.

[GuyMontag 1,264]

Quick responses back:

I thought you were cuter!

I thought you were smarter!

I thought you weren't rude!

I can tell you don't have Lap Band!

[MiniMi 1,468]

Extreme success is the best revenge!

Stick it to 'em!!

[lisacaron 5,075]

_{Ah Vent away you are amoung friends here!}

[Sharpie 3,306]

My husband said something the other day like "Are you still losing weight?".. I said yes I am but it's my problem not yours.. don't bug me about this .. I don't bug you about smoking (which I hate). so you just let me do this wihtout any judgement or comments.. he quickly apologized and said he was just wondering since I hadn't said anything lately.. truth is I don't want to jinx myself.. there have been so many diets and "programs" in the past where I failed and I don't want to fail at this... keep your head up and don't worry about it.. Like they say revenge will be when you are happy , healthier and thin..

[SandyM 1,956]

I only told a few people and the ones I told have been very supportive. I may tell others later, but for some reason people seem to watch you and wait for you to fail. I don't quite understand it and don't like it. Besides, I'm doing this for me and nobody else.