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Familiar feelings here. After 50 pounds everyone is noticing and asking. For the most part I say I had weight loss surgery. Even though at 4 months postoperative most of the work was me not the band.

Talk about hearing it all though as far as reactions and comments on losing weight, even getting some negatives.... You've lost enough... You don't want to get too skinny. Really people?!? I'm still over 200 pounds!!

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Take all the compliments you can receive and don't worry about them. People are seeing you differently after the band, so just say thank you. Don't let it bother you. You are doing the best thing for yourself. It's not for anybody else. You did the pain suffering surgery day, nobody else did that for you. You can make it happen!

Best wishes

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Always always such kind words of wisdom !! Btw I love the new pic.

mine??

girl your profile pic is gorgeous...you had to be a model or still are

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