Boyfriend didnt agree with surgery

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A healthier you will give you more wonderful years to spend with him. We never know what's around the corner. Life turns on a dime, and all any of us can do is live it one day at a time.

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I know this is not the same thing but i figured it was similar so i posted here:

My bf is behind me 100% and knows its for health reasons..but what I am worried about is whether or not he will find me attractive later after weight loss. Attraction is a big part of a relationship whether people like to admit it or not. He says he loves me but he has always dated bigger women so im worried. What even worries me more is whether I will find myself attractive afterwards. I find myself beautiful now and am doing lapband for health reasons only. I'm worried about having no curves and it getting to my self esteem. Anyone else have this issue?

I'll agree, attraction to someone is what gets you in the door, but your heart is what keeps him coming home to you! I have lost a lot of weight and I'm a girl that will always have curves! Healthy and thinner doesn't have to mean shapeless! Don't worry yourself about something that COULD happen! If you do that you will miss the joy of the moment!