Just beginning my journey...scared

[AuntLisa82 3]

Hello everyone! I stumbled across this site during my research on the band. I have been researching for awhile now and have scheduled my first consultation with the surgeon (Dr. Shin, in WV) for March 21. Needless to say, I am very very very nervous! Did I mention I was nervous? I have been making a list of questions for him, have a support buddy who is going with me, but still scared. Is that normal for just a consultation of am I just blowing it out of proportion? The thing that scares me the most about this procedure is being put to sleep. I have only had one surgery in my life and that was a million years ago when I had a tonsillectomy! I wasn't scared just happy that I got to miss school and could have ice cream!! Has anyone else had this problem and how did you cope? Thanks in advance....

[parisshel 1,892]

I think everybody fears the anesthesia aspect of surgery, any surgery, not just WLS. And really, the only way to get over it is to go through it. My advice would be to not read any "bad anesthesia" stories on any forum or blog, because it will amplify your fears.

Also, bring this up at your consultation because your MD can address it and knowledge of how anesthesia works may help you be less afraid.

Many hospitals will give you a pre-sedative before bringing you into the OR as they are very mindful of how stressful psychologically surgery is for some patients. Inform yourself and see if this is a protocol you could have for your situation.

Lastly, know you aren't alone with your fear. I don't know of anyone who goes into a surgery fearfree.

[tiggergramma 129]

I was terrified before surgery, to the point they finally gave me Valium a few days before so I could sleep and function like an adult! I have no fear of anesthesia, I've had a few surgical procedures and have never had any issues with anesthetics, plus I have worked in medical fields all my life and am quite familiar with them. Today's anesthetics are exceptionally smooth, but I would certainly talk with your surgeon about your concerns and set up a meet with the anesthetist so they can talk to you about what they will use and how it should affect you.

My fear was of failure. I was so afraid of taking this huge step and then not being able to succeed at it. Well, this board and others really helped with those fears. (along with the Valium! LOL) Good luck! You will do great!

[AuntLisa82 3]

Thanks for the insight and tips. I might have to have the Valium before the initial consult! LOL!! I have been reading a lot of posts on here and they are very helpful...informative. I have a feeling this website will be a major part of my process.