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I am not liking this what so ever!

ErinSue2000

By ErinSue2000, in The Gals' Room

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ErinSue2000    48

ErinSue2000
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Well yesterday I went to the doctor and speaking it was valentines day I asked if I could show my husband love and she shot me down and said not for 2 weeks after surgery! Are you kidding me! Grrrrrrr

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Maddysgram    6,159

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Well being I'm a person whose port flipped b/c stitching was torn, from who knows what ;) ;) I'd do what Dr says and show him loving in another way ;) ;)

Port revision surgery not fun.js

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tym4me    206

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Heck. I would take the break now. Hes always been "affectionate" but now its over the top.

Theres always next Valentines an who knows you might be looking for a break for yourself by then too ;)

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Lapbandster    496

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Ahh

Sorry to hear that- so annoying!

GUess you'll just have to Celebrate Valentine's day in 2 weeks!

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Instyle98    240

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You ladies crack me up! :lol:

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dolphintattoo    96

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My surgeon said it was fine as long as you felt ok with it, but the first 2 weeks I just took my pain meds and dozed off around 9pm each night!

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hely88    883

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I say why not make every day valentines day!

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TexasJeff    179

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Do what the Doctor says. My wife and I haven't had "relations" but a handful if times over the past year because she is a chronic pain back patient. She is having major surgery next week. Guess what, I'll be there when she is physically well enough.

Your man will be waitin for you too. But, when you do heal, get your freak on and rock his world. Give him the toe curling good time of his life.

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Terry Poperszky    2,784

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But, when you do heal, get your freak on and rock his world. Give him the toe curling good time of his life.

As a male, I wholeheartedly endorse this suggestion.

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TexasJeff    179

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Details, details Details!!!!!

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JhonnieB    73

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I'm mad!! 2 weeks?? My surgeon said 6 weeks, and I'm in my 4th week. This is hard very hard lolol... counting the days

11cc Realize Band: Surgery 1/23/13<br />SW: 325lbs<br />CW:281<br />GW:200<br />1st fill- 3ccs- 2/22/13<br />

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