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Remember ladies' date=' we love you, our partners, and no matter what, we want YOU. No matter how you feel you look. Overweight, underweight, sick, healthy. We WANT you! We DESIRE you!

If we could give you anything in the world, it would be the gift of seeing you through our eyes just for one day, so you could see how special you are to us.

Overweight or not, make love (sex) to your partner. He needs it.

After all, whats 2-3 minutes out of your evening anyway? ;-)[/quote']

This post is so sweet!! Thank you for that

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I was so glad to see this after a disappointing visit at the gyno today. I told him I have no sex drive- like I was literally in tears. I love my husband and our kids are 16 and 13 and I feel horrible that I don't feel the same way about it as he does. So when I talked to my dr today I thought maybe I need my hormone levels checked or something. He didn't do any labs, told me to lose weight and send the kids away for the night. Still makes me want to cry. My surgery is June 13- I hope it helps.

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Hate this topic (LOL)...never had one never will...hate looking at myself and dont want anyone else to either...I even shower in the dark-pathetic I know... but there's no amt of weight loss that will make any difference in regards to sex sad to say :(

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