Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

I don't normally complain... but today I am such a wreck... the liquids make me throw up... have pushed ever friend away because I can't handle being around food. Is not their fault I do have depression and I normal if I didn't eat would get irritated well today bam gasket blown. I can handle this and only a few more days until feb 5 just strange how my depression got so worse so quickly... did anyone else have such a problem? Not to mention I feel super hungry but only when I smell food which I have two kids to cook for. So the temptations are present. Ball of nerves..

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hang in there, I promise it will get better. days 3,4,and 5 are the worse, at least it was for me. My body was going thru detox of carbs and sugar and I wanted to eat so bad. I had to do 3 Protein Shakes a day plus all the broth, sf Jello, sf popsicles I wanted. Make sure you are getting enough Protein in your shakes to stay fuller longer. Cook your kids some chicken noodle Soup, homemade and pour the broth off for you. Cook a pot of Beans and eat the broth/soup part. Oh girl if I could come thru this computer and get you thru this I would. I'm 7 mos post op and it is so worth it. Just stay focused, think about why you are doing this, and if your friends are hindering your eating choices explain to them what you are feeling. True friends will understand. If you are throwing up on the shakes, maybe find another brand you can tolerate because not only do you have to be on a liquid diet pre op you also have to do it after I hate to tell ya. So its good to find one that you really like. I gagged on the ones my surgeon suggested so I found others I liked. still keep them around for a quick meal. Big hugs to you.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you so much for responding!!! I need to find better shakes do you have any suggestions. I was on a low carb diet with no gluten or flour products at all. It was hard but managed it fine that I didn't need those potatoes I was addicted to. :) but this Bariatric Advantage is so disgusting. Atkins drinks taste way better. Am allowed broth and sugar free jellos and popsicles. Is difficult but because none of my friends understand it they just don't get why I don't want to watch them eat a meal! I can do this just need the right mind set. Thank you for your encouraging words!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I really feel that most of the battle w/ food is the emotional aspect. I know it is hard right now, but it does get easier. If it's too much to be around your friends w/ food, then do what you are doing and avoid it. You have to do what works for you. Now, longterm it wouldn't be realistic to avoid everyone/everything but while you get through this initial stage you have to do what works for you. People who aren't going through it don't always realize how much of a struggle this is. As for the shakes, I like Premier Protein (premixed drinks) in chocolate and have seen others say that too. Another suggestion (and these are GOOOD) was from my nutritionist. I buy the Carnation Instant Breakfast (chocolate) NO SUGAR added (comes in a blue box or container), mix it with 8 ounces of skim milk and 3 T of powdered fat free milk (for added protein). It is about 20g of Protein and very yummy.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I love the Unjury products. I'm 3 weeks post op and used them pre-op and now. The chocolate shakes, unflavored and chicken are great. you can call them and talk to someone. it has 21g Protein and if made with skim milk- 29g. Go the website. great recipe ideas. I will be using them now on to make sure I always get enough protein and you can add them to your food.

Crystal light, that helps too.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sorry I didn't get back to you last night, I went to bed. I drink GNC's brand Lean shake already mixed up Swiss Choc. 25 grams of Protein. Didn't like the other flavors but the swiss choc was good. If you have a GNC near you and go in ask, they will usually let you sample or at least mine did. The other girls have great suggestions too.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×