I don't belong here

[tym4me 206]

Chez. How could you thank someone in one breath for their post and in the next be so negative. Everyone belongs here whether banded or not, we all need as much info as we can get.

[☠carolinagirl☠ 18,721]

I was wondering the same thing? Post op all of our struggles/ lifestyle changes can be fairly similar. I come here, not because I have the lb ( although that was my initial choice of wls, I chose plication) but because there are so many wonderfully supportive people and ideas here. Some that have come from you chez... Who also has the plication. Wouldn't it be sad if they kicked chez and I out because we have the plication? Just a thought...

i have the band and plication and i have found as long as i adhere to the the rules of eating good/better quality foods and exercise (do what i can) and leave the excuses and junk food to the curb, i will be successful.

this is a great site. i have found nothing but support. granted there are a few (bad apples) but that is them and not worth letting it affect ME.

[joannedt 83]

Then go to the sleeve forum and post there.

How rude!

[puppyphat 397]

Thank you so much for the KIND responses. When I was researching the band, there seemed to be quite a few people on here who had had revisions to the sleeve, and also others like me who wanted to compare the results for the 2 of them. I wish everybody the best success with their weight loss, and if anybody pre op would like to know anything specific about the sleeve, I'm more than happy to chat.

[akwright68 114]

I think it is beneficial for all of us to be open and supportive of everyone, no matter where they are into the process or what they have had done. There are many people here that have different stories to tell.

[Mrs. Curtis 42]

Do you have a problem with her posting here? If so' date=' why?[/quote']

I was thinking the same thing- I find it interesting to hear others stories and successes regardless of they type of WLS they had.

[wallflower 188]

Do you have a problem with her posting here? If so' date=' why?[/quote']

Yeah. Rude much?

[wallflower 188]

Hi guys' date=' I used to stalk this forum a lot when I was pre op. Due to insurance issues I was switched from the band to the sleeve just 2 weeks before surgery. I was ok with this as I knew there was a risk that if I had the band, I might end up with the sleeve eventually, due to complications.

I don't have any experience with the band, as I didn't end up getting it, and am not trying to swing people over to the sleeve. I am posting on here to let you know that if circumstances change, if complications occur, if you are one of the ones that the band just isn't working for, the sleeve is not that bad and you can still have great results.

I'm only posting this because the advice I got from here was invaluable when I was pre op and making my decision. I wanted to return the favour somehow.

The band is a great tool, and for some, a great first step. If you find yourself having to take the 2nd step of revision to the sleeve, you have not failed and you can still expect great success.

Good luck on your weight loss journey.

210lb

125lb. Surgery was on 13 August 2012.[/quote']

You look amazing! I sorta regret not doing sleeve but what's done is done. Personally I like reading all weight loss stories for inspiration, whether it be band, sleeve, bypass, or even those super humans who do it on their own.

[CHEZNOEL 4,061]

Deleted by the idiot who posted it here! Peace! :wub:

[Mrs. Curtis 42]

Yep... rude a lot if you call that rude. I call it my opinion to which I am entitled. I do not think prospective lap band patients need to learn about the pitfalls of bariatric surgery from anyone but their doctor. The originator came over her to stick her finger in the eye of every band patient who did not do it her way. IMHO it cam across that way. I appreciate her need to share' date=' but If I want to know about gastric sleeve I will go over to their forum and read about it. Not post about how wonderful my lap band journey has been. If you call my opinion rude... don't read it or block me so I cannot offend your tender sensibilities anymore. Peace! :wub:[/quote']c

Can you please share how to block?

[CHEZNOEL 4,061]

Your problem, not mine. I can take or leave whatever one says. You might try your profile though!

[Sa` 2]

I am happy you found something that worked for you.... you look great! I have not been banded yet I have a few more months of required diet I hope I have as much success

Sent from my SAMSUNG-3S because it is wise and all knowing...

[wallflower 188]

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Can you please share how to block?

Lol that cracked me up

[wallflower 188]

Yep... rude a lot if you call that rude. I call it my opinion to which I am entitled. I do not think prospective lap band patients need to learn about the pitfalls of bariatric surgery from anyone but their doctor. The originator came over her to stick her finger in the eye of every band patient who did not do it her way. IMHO it cam across that way.

OMG really? I didn't read it like that AT ALL?

I thought she came across very perky, friendly and cheerful and simply wanted to share her success. If u look around the forum there is a bunch of people contemplating band vs sleeve, so I think this is a perfect place for her to post. This is a life changing decision... The more info for them, the better!

[CHEZNOEL 4,061]

OK.... this is me falling on my sword. Had a pissy day and fight with my hubs. Took it out here. My bad.

I agree information is for everyone and I should not be so snotty. Thanks to those of you who took the time to point it out to me in PMs. I do appreciate it.

I can also be blunt, honest, helpful, funny, and wrong. Mostly I try to help. I have NO patience for whiners, so be forwarned. I do not mince words in my opinion. nor will I post disclaimers. When I am wrong I admit it. As I am now. I am also sending a PM to the post originator with my apologies. No excuses.