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I'm only 18 and weight about 285 . I have 2 sons one is 1 the other is 2 and they are 11months apart! Ya tell me about it lol! But before my first child I weigh 157 and felt great ,but now I can't even get out of bed I struggle to do everything even my sex life with my husband sucks . I just want to make sure I'm here for a long time for my ill boys and I can't wait for my husband to see the new me I'm going thru the nix lap and hospital with dr.wright in San Antonio tx and tomorrow I go to my first visit to start my 6 month diet which my insurance requires so I guess I will be have my surgery in the end of June I can't wait to start and get to the old me I know it will be worth while.

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Good luck on your journey.

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Good luck! It's totally worth it.

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I think it is the thing I ever did for myself!

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Good Luck and hang in there, don't give up on your Quest. I had to do 6 month supervised nutrition for my insurance company as well. I get anded next week and can not wait. STick with it and do everything your doctor says and you will do great. :D

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Best decision you ever made! For you and your family!

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Congrats girl on taking this step!! I'm young like you too..and althought I don't have kids yet, I want to get healthier so that some day I can have healthy kids! and obviously I want to get my life back too and be healthy!! I had to do the 6 month diet as well..and damn it went fast! You'll have tough moments throughout the journey but just remind yourself why your doing this!! A healthier happier you!! Good luck!!!

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Good luck with your journey, I myself am a mother of two (9&2) and I can't run around with the two year old like I used to with the nine year old! I commend you for taking the steps needed in order to give yourself and your family a better longer healthier life!

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** Plus the fact that your only 18 means your body will bounce back and you will look amazing! #jealous :)

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