To tell or not to tell......

[jewel2013 25]

I have made a personal choice not to tell anyone other than my husband of course. I don't discuss my weight problem seriously with many people and feel that it is something that I want to keep private for now.

There are some things in life that I am willing to share with friends and co workers and others that I want to keep to myself.

As time goes on who knows what will change however I am living in my moment of today.

[Banjo257 920]

Keep it quiet until you are ready. And maybe, that may be never. Just be careful not to get caught in a lie. Do like chez said, everything true, so no trouble later.

Good luck!!

[♥LovetheNewMe♥ 1,216]

It is a personal choice. i chose to tell everyone I worked with and all my family and friends. Today when people ask how I lost weight, I say with a lot of hard work and LapBand.

[shady2121 74]

I didnt keep it a secret from family or co-workers. Although Im still a newbie I have not had any negative feedback. I actually needed some advice before having the surgery and some of my co-workers are good friends. Many co-workers are very interested in my journey. In fact another co-worker is in the process of getting surgery herself. We went to our lap-band siminar together. Good Luck with your choice.