need major help

[bar2373 138]

We can not allow ourselves to wallow in self pity any longer. That is why I have decided to have the surgery. I am going to make this work or else. Just try to remember back to when you were going thru all of the pre-op and the surgery and how bad you wanted it then. You are not that far off and you CAN get back up and DO THIS.

No more pity party, pick yourself up, FOR YOU. No one else (although you do have a little one to think about) make you happy this time. You are the only one that can do this for you.

I have found the people here so loving and supportive and we will all be here to be a sounding board and help, but I have found it to also be a great place to get a kick in the butt and get me out of my pity party too.

GO YOU

[Dreamer88 2]

So glad I found this post...Girlfriend...I feel the exact same way right now. I've gained about 20 lbs of my lost weight back in the last 6 months after getting into a serious relationship. It's tough. My boyrfriend can literally eat whatever he wants and never gain a pound. And he eats A LOT!!!! I was scared to go to the doctor too because I was so disgusted with myself, but I finally broke down and called the doctor and nutritionist today. It's all about wanting it bad enough. If you don't want it bad enough you won't take the time to do it. I absolutely know how it feels to be sooo unmotivated from being so depressed and disappointed in yourself! All it takes is one day. One day to start to be better than who you were yesterday. And if one day you fail, try again tomorrow!!

[ladytru84 23]

Yup I'm gonna do my best to try n stay on track