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These are photos that I took with my fiancee this year. One way pre Lap band for a party we went to in May. The other was taken on 12/9 when we went out and celebrated our 9 year anniversery. It's nice to stand next to the man you love and enjoy seeing the 2 of you together rather then thinking how fat you are next to them!

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I know just how you feel... I spent our vacation in october making up for lost time with pics of us...lol

You look fabulous! Keep it up!

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You look beautiful! Congratulations on your success!

Can't wait to have a pic of my hubby and I that I actually like :-)

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Congratulations.... I don't care who you lost it for. You are the winner! Wow!

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Looking amazing, well done!!

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Beautiful! I completely understand.

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Way to go! Thanks for the motivation.

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Congrats! Looking amazing!

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Beautiful...I can tell how good you feel by your smiles

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Thanks everyone! It feels great! I'm currently at 201 and he's maintaining his normal weight of 198....2 more pounds to onederland and 5 more pounds to be under his weight... He's loved me from the 12 I was when he met me and through the years to a whopping size 22. I think he loves me at a 16, a 14, and whatever else size I drop to. Very fortunate to have someone in my life who loved me through it all. I know he can't wait to see me in some tiny Victoria Secret undies though :)

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You look great!

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